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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    Quote Originally Posted by KnightTurner View Post
    I think that message is great. It's playful and will most likely get a laugh. So go for it! SBAP
    I sent it about 45 mins ago and she just responded with "F u lol"

    I will probably sleep on it and message her tomorrow. Dunno what to say as a follow up to that lol.

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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    The door is wide open for this one! (no pun intended)
    There's potential for rapid escalation based on her responses... especially the last one.

    You could go with a number of replies:

    "Hmmm ya know, that can be arranged... "

    "That's a rather fantastic idea! I like the way you think. "

    "I suppose you could talk me into that.. & you don't even have to buy me dinner. "

    "Well, I usually prefer to just cuddle, but why not? heehee!"

    "Tell ya what... drop the 'lol' & it's a deal!! "


    Anytime a girl is being as bold & playful as this one is, that's the perfect time to jump ahead & skip the slower approach to flirting. It's like doing the cannon-ball into a pool! Jump in & make a splash!!



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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    The door is wide open for this one! (no pun intended)
    There's potential for rapid escalation based on her responses... especially the last one.

    You could go with a number of replies:

    "Hmmm ya know, that can be arranged... "

    "That's a rather fantastic idea! I like the way you think. "

    "I suppose you could talk me into that.. & you don't even have to buy me dinner. "

    "Well, I usually prefer to just cuddle, but why not? heehee!"

    "Tell ya what... drop the 'lol' & it's a deal!! "


    Anytime a girl is being as bold & playful as this one is, that's the perfect time to jump ahead & skip the slower approach to flirting. It's like doing the cannon-ball into a pool! Jump in & make a splash!!

    Well I wont get a chance to reply...She deactivated her Facebook profile sometime between last night and this morning. I thought she may have blocked me but her profile doesn't even come up on my buddies FB.
    I'm not sure if I had anything to do with it, she posted a picture on Instagram that said "A real man makes you wet your panties, not your eyes" and her Twitter has 2 entries that both say they were submitted 5 hours ago
    "Hahahahaha wow"
    "Man I suck life I make bad decisions a lot"
    Her reply to me on FB shows 6 hours ago, 1 hour prior to these Tweets.

    Should I message her on Twitter or on one of her picture on Instagram something?We had a little joking conversation on one of my pics on Instagram a couple nights ago, I could add to it. I'm not 'following' her on Twitter so I would need to follow first before I sent out a Tweet. Not sure what to do now.

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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    That's a tough one....
    Because you don't want to look like needy, or like a stalker.

    It might be best to keep this one on the back burner & "silently stalk" until you see her come on again. (But don't make contact immediately, or the stalker vibe will definitely come through. LOL!)

    That's about all I can think of at the moment, because I've never had this particular experience myself.

    But the one thing I DO know is: you don't want to look needy.


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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    That's a tough one....
    Because you don't want to look like needy, or like a stalker.

    It might be best to keep this one on the back burner & "silently stalk" until you see her come on again. (But don't make contact immediately, or the stalker vibe will definitely come through. LOL!)

    That's about all I can think of at the moment, because I've never had this particular experience myself.

    But the one thing I DO know is: you don't want to look needy.
    So I just noticed she posted a status on FB, her account is back online. Sounds like to me she had an alcohol, drama filled night. I was gonna wait till maybe this afternoon to message her back.

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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    So I sent "I suppose you could talk me into that.. & you don't even have to buy me dinner. "

    She replied" haha your funny"
    :/ dunno what to say now.

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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    Just so I know, are we discussing the first or second girl that you have asked about?
    DOOOOONNNN'TTTT CAAAARREEEEE

    You are the prize. She needs to earn it.

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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    Quote Originally Posted by KnightTurner View Post
    Just so I know, are we discussing the first or second girl that you have asked about?
    2nd.
    The 1st has 'seen' my message but hasn't replied yet.

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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    Look around town and see if there's any stand up comedies at a bar or restaurant you could go to. Something at a dive bar would be perfect. If you find one, tell her "If you think I'm funny, I have tickets to see xxx at xxxx. You should tag along to see him/her."
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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    Quote Originally Posted by KnightTurner View Post
    Look around town and see if there's any stand up comedies at a bar or restaurant you could go to. Something at a dive bar would be perfect. If you find one, tell her "If you think I'm funny, I have tickets to see xxx at xxxx. You should tag along to see him/her."
    We don't have anything like that anymore around here.


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