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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    Look around just to make sure there isn't. If not, I'll need to think of how to proceed... Anyone else have ideas?
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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    Do I just switch topics here or what should I do with the 2nd girl.

    First girl has yet to respond, should I say anything else to her?

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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    I'm gonna have to sleep on this one. I have a few things floating around but they're pretty vague. Ill nail them down overnight and let you know in the morning what in thinking.
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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    Quote Originally Posted by KnightTurner View Post
    I'm gonna have to sleep on this one. I have a few things floating around but they're pretty vague. Ill nail them down overnight and let you know in the morning what in thinking.
    Sounds good!

    The first girl FINALLY replied.
    I had sent her this on Tuesday: "Maybe I AM tempting you (as long as you're not just 'teasing' me that is.) Put your big girl panties on & let's do this ;p"

    Her reply today at 4:21am: "Haha lets plan something for another day!"

    Should I throw a date out there, or ask her what her schedule is like?

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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    For the second girl, "oh stop it, you're making me blush. And you know what they say when you make someone blush, right?" She'll ask what, that's when you can ask her out. You have to buy them a drink, take them to dinner, etc.

    For the first, wait a few days to respond. She made you wait, you make her wait. I'd wait until Saturday morning and say "woops just saw this, but looks like you're out of luck missy. Yesterday was my only day for coffee this year!"
    Now obviously you didn't just see the message come Saturday and she'll know that, which is good. She'll start to wonder why you didn't respond for a few days, why you didn't try and talk her into going Friday, and with the message she'll wonder why you're not offering an alternative (is she not good enough? Is she playing too hard to get?). All of these are questions that we want her thinking.
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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    I'll do that for sure with the 1st girl.

    The 2nd one... The blush thing sounds kinda corny, maybe just me? This girl is 21, party and drink practically 24/7 and she is a waitress at a hooters type restaurant.. Maybe I'm just kinda expecting a different approach?

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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    It's corny, but it's worth a shot. She didn't really give you much to go off of. Another option would be just go straight for it. "Hey i was thinking, lets get a drink this weekend. Ill pick you up Saturday at 11."
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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    Quote Originally Posted by KnightTurner View Post
    It's corny, but it's worth a shot. She didn't really give you much to go off of. Another option would be just go straight for it. "Hey i was thinking, lets get a drink this weekend. Ill pick you up Saturday at 11."
    Well I decided to man up and just do it.
    So it kinda bombed but then worked out.


    Me: Oh stop it, you're making me blush... And you know what they say when you make someone blush, right?
    Her: No
    Me: You have to buy them a drink.
    Her: Gaaayyyyy
    Me: Ya you're totally right... Getting drinks would fu*k up our babies health! I'll settle for dinner next Wednesday
    Her: Hahahahaha!!! Omg!!! Your so mean!!!

    I used our inside joke to pick it back up and it seemed to work! What should I do next here? Is her response good? This is a tough weekend since all the costume parties etc to invite her out.




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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    You did good. Although Wednesday is Halloween, don't forget. Not sure if that would be a conflict, just reminding you. Anyways, go ahead and finalize your plans. Tell her when you're picking her up and where you're going.
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    Default Re: Started flirting, asked her to meet up.. Need help

    Quote Originally Posted by KnightTurner View Post
    You did good. Although Wednesday is Halloween, don't forget. Not sure if that would be a conflict, just reminding you. Anyways, go ahead and finalize your plans. Tell her when you're picking her up and where you're going.
    Ohhh yeah, woops! Forgot about Halloween lol.


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