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    Default 10 Things not to do on Facebook

    Here's a list of things NOT to do on Facebook:

    1. Constant Status Updates > Getting incessant status updates from people can be irritating. So don't tell everyone (including your target) about how you just took a shit or how you woke up.

    2. Relationship Statuses > Don't do them. Its lame and not worth your time changing it.

    3. <3 > Please don't do this.

    4. Writing hahahahahahahahahahh ahahahaha after a joke > Respond with a simple Haha or something witty.

    5. d0nt tork lik dis > Use sentences not s3ntenses.

    6. Try not to swear > Girls don't find this attractive. Ilike to use the odd word but I can't stress this enough: DO NOT OVER-FUCKING-DO IT!

    7. Generally try not to do status updates > Avoid them when you can. If you do always be witty.

    8. Don't play games on Facebook > When your girl gets a message asking if she will give you a gift on farmville, she may not find you as attractive anymore.

    9. Don't do "Like for a like" or "Like for a rate" > This makes you come across as needy and that you seek others attention for you to feel good about yourself. Because you don't.

    10. Signing off comments and statuses > Don't sign of your comments: - Timmy or CS. We can see who posted it so don't feel obliged to say that it was you who did it.

    * This is actually a little piece of information that I learnt from a friend: When you look at your profile and see your friends category, the names and faces of the 8 or so people in it are the most recent people to view your profile. I'm not sure this is 100% true but it seems pretty legitimate.

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    Default Re: 10 Things not to do on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by Griffin View Post

    * This is actually a little piece of information that I learnt from a friend: When you look at your profile and see your friends category, the names and faces of the 8 or so people in it are the most recent people to view your profile. I'm not sure this is 100% true but it seems pretty legitimate.
    Not so sure that part is true. I used to think that too, but if you refresh your own page you'll see they come up at random.

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    Default Re: 10 Things not to do on Facebook

    What's your suggestion for status updates? Mine range from zero to 2 a day. I try and keep them witty, or things that will make people laugh such as silly pictures or jokes.

    I also have to say that cursing can be a turn off, but this is something you should "mirror" with your target. Keep your conversations clean until she curses first. After that throw in a curse. See how it goes. Same thing goes for smilies - A lot of times it's tough to display sarcasm or jokes without a smiley, so if you need to use one, do it sparingly. Also see how she uses them, and mirror accordingly.

    I've also wondered about the top 8 friends thing, too. Someone told me recently that if someone views your profile a lot they're more likely to show up. To me, I just think the people who show up the most are the ones you interact with the most, via IM, comments, and likes. I refreshed my page 10 times once, and everyone that showed up was someone I've interacted with heavily recently.

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    Default Re: 10 Things not to do on Facebook

    for status updates, i will wait for some one to post or tagg photo's on my wall between status so people dont get the wrong idea, so usually i will wait for 2 post/taggs on wall between status.

    My staus: very random, im a bloke but i'll tell people im pregnant or will say something completely against society, i've notice with all my photo's of going out i get girls saying im a party animal etc.

    Im unique and my facebook is too, I say things that are offensive but in a playfull manner, i joke about the pathetic habbits of humanity. But people love it.

    Never tell people how you need a coffee. how bad your day is. And bloody hell please dont do Quotations, facebook today is covered in them, i read about 12 quotes a day, come up with your own advice dont give others.

    I dont have a relationship status, screw relationship status and status updates, what you should all be focusing on is social proof
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    Default Re: 10 Things not to do on Facebook

    GREAT post Griffin!!
    And welcome to the forums.

    Thanks for contributing the solid advice! There are plenty of guys who will benefit from this one, if they're paying attention.

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    Default Re: 10 Things not to do on Facebook

    Quote Originally Posted by Griffin View Post
    Here's a list of things NOT to do on Facebook:

    1. Constant Status Updates > Getting incessant status updates from people can be irritating. So don't tell everyone (including your target) about how you just took a sh1t or how you woke up.

    2. Relationship Statuses > Don't do them. Its lame and not worth your time changing it.

    3. <3 > Please don't do this.

    4. Writing hahahahahahahahahahh ahahahaha after a joke > Respond with a simple Haha or something witty.

    5. d0nt tork lik dis > Use sentences not s3ntenses.

    6. Try not to swear > Girls don't find this attractive. Ilike to use the odd word but I can't stress this enough: DO NOT OVER-farkING-DO IT!

    7. Generally try not to do status updates > Avoid them when you can. If you do always be witty.

    8. Don't play games on Facebook > When your girl gets a message asking if she will give you a gift on farmville, she may not find you as attractive anymore.

    9. Don't do "Like for a like" or "Like for a rate" > This makes you come across as needy and that you seek others attention for you to feel good about yourself. Because you don't.

    10. Signing off comments and statuses > Don't sign of your comments: - Timmy or CS. We can see who posted it so don't feel obliged to say that it was you who did it.

    * This is actually a little piece of information that I learnt from a friend: When you look at your profile and see your friends category, the names and faces of the 8 or so people in it are the most recent people to view your profile. I'm not sure this is 100% true but it seems pretty legitimate.
    I'm not much of a fb guy so i deffinately don't do those things but still that is solid advice.
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    Default Re: 10 Things not to do on Facebook

    Im pretty glad to see that Im already following most of the advice on the list. The only exception is the status updates, I can do 2 days no update to 4 in a day, sometimes Im in a yappy mood I guess. However its always something funny and original or im re posting a classic music video that everyone loves but totally forgot about until I "found" it again, I avoid all of the memes, funny ecard BS "like if you..." stuff like a plague. Ive had quite a few people tell me that I have good status updates compared to most people so I think Im gonna keep that as is. I think sometimes is can be tempting to let out your feelings and write a poetic heartfelt status about something romantic in your life, dont do it!!! Same thing as texting an ex while drunk, just dont do it man!

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    Default Silence is Superb

    When it comes to posting on Facebook, I tend to try not to post that often. When I do post, I try to make sure that it is at least slightly funny.

    For example (and you all may be the judge on this) this one girl posted on Facebook about how her professor observed something and felt like a genius. I commented in the post about how I had discovered that you were supposed to remove the corn husks from tamales and before that I had thought they were disgusting. In conclusion, I did not feel like a genius.

    I'm not so trying to get at the girl (I do know her very well), rather I'm trying to catch somebody else's attention.
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    Default Re: 10 Things not to do on Facebook

    for my facebook i usually just put funny pictures up or something cheesy for the girls lol i dont really do anything else on it
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: 10 Things not to do on Facebook

    Id like to add one that I follow as well:

    Be VERY sparing with that 'like' button. I see guys all the time who 'like' everything a girl says, all her pictures and everything. Its ok to hit 'like' every now and then, but use it very sparingly. What I prefer to do to a status or picture is give a funny comment. If my target posts a picture I might comment and give her a very mild neg. Mild is the key word here because most girls will get really mad if you neg them hard for everyone on facebook to see. But if you do a mild neg, and be playful with it, it'll work wonders.

    Rather than comment on her looks, id rather tease her about her trying to gain attention by posting a picture.

    Something along the lines of:
    "Awe look. (Name) is trying to get attention by posting sexy pictures on facebook. Well, Im just going to ignore this and not give you the satisfaction ;p"

    Still a work in progress, so if you wanna tweak it feel free! Its worked for me. Just make sure you do this to a girl you've gained at least a little attraction and familiarity with. I don't imagine it'd work on a girl who isn't very familiar with you yet.

    Thanks for contributing these tips!


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