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    rfjammer is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Tough/hard to get girl driving me nuts - any advice?

    Right,

    There is a girl I think I might be getting oneitis on.... however im willing to accept that it might be because she is playing hard to get OR that she is uninterested (which is like a red flag to a bull where I'm concerned if I like the girls personality)

    We have been out on a few dates and k-closed on both. She is interested and gives me plenty of IOIs when we are together.

    However she is farking hard to pin down, while when we are together my game is good and things work well, however when we are not it all seems to go wrong (possibly because my text/phone game sucks ass).

    Asked her out to town on monday for some fun, she responded but didn't answer my question. So I comp'd/negged her (which retrospectively was handled badly by me), she responded but again not to that particular statement. She did mention that she didnt want to go to a particular place because her sister works there, I said I was sorry to hear that and that I wasn't actually free on monday as I had something else I couldn't get out of (true, I farked up the dates in my head) but would she like to go out Sat night/Sun day instead. She basically said no and apologised.

    Maybe I'm reading too much into this but she didn't say yes to my initial offer or my changed offer, BUT she always responds and quickly as well and is interested when we are out together? WTF?

    So thinking about leaving it for at least 24 hours, but not really sure where to go from here. Don't want to leave it too long for a date (but really am snowed under now for about 10 days) and feel I need to get a concrete date in place, but also don't want to come across as too needy.

    Any advice on how to play this one is genuinely appreciated, but please don't tell me to game other girls because I'm currently dating two others (but would 'happily' drop them both for this girl).

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    Default Re: Tough/hard to get girl driving me nuts - any advice?

    let her intiate next conversation and act a little bit (just a tad) unattached, when she hooks on start applying uninterested abit more, make her want more and more, then dont ask her out, demand she comes out at a time. say something like " I'm busy all week, the only time im free is (this time), so then or i'll see you in the near future"

    witht hat comment you dont propose a new time so its a mystery when she has the next time to see you,but be careful, you have to be sure she is attracted to you first and you have to get her chasing you abit first other wise this will work the other way and she will grow resentful.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Tough/hard to get girl driving me nuts - any advice?

    Ok so I understand why you said that but what happens if you know for a fact that the girl wants you to chase her (mutual friend so kind of have a little insider info - though not enough IMO). I personally believe that if I don't restart the text convo she is unlikely to. She is nice but her ego is fairly large.

    Thinking of just leaving it for a few days and going in with a

    "Shame you can't make it on sat/sun. Because I'm busy all next week on my ml training, the only other time I'm free is this Friday night, so then or i'll see you in the near future"


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