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    Default The Morning After Part 2. Check it please.

    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...ed-advice.html


    So I made this thread a day or two ago, and now i'm unsure on what to text this girl.

    I texted her this today at around 2pm:

    "So i'm driving to work today & one thing kept going through my mind..."

    If she responded I was going to be funny, but so far no response. I am going out of my mind, since I really like her.

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    I was THINKING of TEXTING HER THIS: "I want a stable girlfriend, and I think I found a special girl. You might know her."


    IS texting her that a mistake ??

    Any suggestions on what I should do? I'm wondering why she hasn't responded to my text yet.

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    Default Re: The Morning After Part 2. Check it please.

    She's embarrassed, or busy, go no contact for a week, then try again, but i do think you should abandond set.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: The Morning After Part 2. Check it please.

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    She's embarrassed, or busy, go no contact for a week, then try again, but i do think you should abandond set.
    Damn..she might be embarrased. I really don't want to abandon this one.

    I miss her a lot.

    Maybe I should text her something like:

    "I want to take it slow, let's go out for lunch. My treat."

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    Default Re: The Morning After Part 2. Check it please.

    Mabie you should reassure her first, say you want to take it slow, but also say "if your embarrassed your happy to forget it happened on one condition, we can grab lunch"
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: The Morning After Part 2. Check it please.

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    Mabie you should reassure her first, say you want to take it slow, but also say "if your embarrassed your happy to forget it happened on one condition, we can grab lunch"
    So bringing up her possible embarassment is okay ?

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    Default Re: The Morning After Part 2. Check it please.

    It should be: But let me reword it for you:

    Say this in a couple of days if she doesnt respond.

    " Hi (name), look i just want to let you know that what happend was alcohol fueled and I ho[pe we can both appreciate that, Lets just forget it happend. Sounds good yeah?"
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: The Morning After Part 2. Check it please.

    I posted this on facebook:

    "I need to find me a stable girlfriend. Tired of going from one girl to another. I must be crazy."


    I think she didn't like it, and deleted me..FUCK.

    So i'm guessing I should just let this one go ?

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    Default Re: The Morning After Part 2. Check it please.

    I think she may have interpreted that as, you saying SHE is unstable... so you're looking for someone else who IS stable.

    When what you actually meant was, "It's about time for me to settle down with one special girl."

    So, it looks like she took your post the wrong way, due to improper interpretation.

    I'd say, at the very least put this one on the back burner for now. It might be possible to re-engage sometime, but don't push too hard for this girl at the moment.


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    Default Re: The Morning After Part 2. Check it please.

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    I think she may have interpreted that as, you saying SHE is unstable... so you're looking for someone else who IS stable.

    When what you actually meant was, "It's about time for me to settle down with one special girl."

    So, it looks like she took your post the wrong way, due to improper interpretation.

    I'd say, at the very least put this one on the back burner for now. It might be possible to re-engage sometime, but don't push too hard for this girl at the moment.
    Yeah I think that's what hapenned. Should I text her with an explanation.

    For example:

    "What I posted on facebook about finding a stable girlfriend was about you." "Why you have so many issues??"


    should I text her that? lol someone help me. I'm bummed out about this.

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    Default Re: The Morning After Part 2. Check it please.

    If you can phrase it the right way where she doesn't misinterpret you, then yeah, you can always let her know the scoop.

    BUT... even your suggested explanation still sounds like it could get "lost in translation".
    She might take THAT reply as you confirming your first post, as her being unstable....
    (Kinda like rubbing her nose in it.)

    I'd go with something like,

    "Ok... I didn't phrase that very well the first time I posted, & I think you may have misunderstood me. (And by the way, that's MY fault for using the wrong words.)
    What I actually meant was; I'm looking for that one, special girl that I can have stability in my life & relationship with... and I kinda might have you in mind to be THAT girl. "


    Make sure that your actual meaning is very clear, so as not to add to the confusion.


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