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    Arrow stuck on fluff, need to go deeper into conversation

    Yo fellas I just got this girl a little hooked on pof with a Direct Game compliment on her eyes.. with a little humor mixed in.

    We were rapidly shootin messages back and forth then I just asked her where she's from (grounding on top of humor) and she replied again.. but I can't think of where to go next.

    Havin one of those blank out moments.. too keep it intersting..

    Any tips? Thanks y'all

    Game on..

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    Default Re: stuck on fluff

    Move for a phone close, but

    1. phrase it in a way so that you are giving her a phone call, not her handing over her phone (i.e. "Why don't I give you a phone call?")
    2. If you are comfortable with it, you can give her your phone number. This puts a sort of non committal pressure for her to give you her number.

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    Default Re: stuck on fluff

    Ya thanks man, I actually did that a bit earlier, so I guess we're on the same wavelegnth bro

    She actually denied giving her #, saying she hates that and would prefer to chat on the web. First time I've got that actually ha.

    So any idea there? I'm thinkin of sayin sometin like 'ah that's cool I gotya, I'm guess I'm different I like to just progress and see if we can *click on the phone.'

    Then throw in something about revealing that I'm a fifty year old weirdo lol.

    That way, I respect her response but don't make it seem like either of us was wrong, and I don't stoop down and just start askin her about her day or something.

    Watya think?

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    Default Re: stuck on fluff

    If she actually says she wishes to continue chatting via the web, then its as good as getting her number!

    Number closing online is not a necessity like it is in real life, as it is merely a tool to buy yourself the next interaction. Thus, a Number Close is not needed here.

    Instead, ask for preferred modes of chat, such as Skype. Throw in some humor, and see how it goes!
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    Default Re: stuck on fluff

    Ah comprendo amigo, u are right there. I'm just used to getting attraction then moving to number, when it goes right. So this is a little odd to me but kind of reminds me how I thought online dating would go when I first started out lol.

    So ill roll with it, although I really do dislike chatting over email, its so stagnant sometimes and lacks that 'real time' feel. So maybe ill throw something in like skype or watever like u said.

    Thanks ill go reply back to her soon now

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    Default Re: stuck on fluff

    I'm actually am going to be posting a guide here soon (be sure to like and recommend it!) but when you are online, you need to assume attraction and rapport. It sounds counter intuitive, but then again, so is a lot of about seduction.
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    Default Re: stuck on fluff

    Right on, good reminder there too.

    Ill look out for that, and bumped ya some rep! Cheers


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