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    Default Still more advice needed please

    Ok so made a previous post here, on the same girl.... possibly have oneitis or possibly girls who play hard to get get under my skin.

    Basically we text each other as main form of communication. We have been on two dates with lots of IOIs, both with k-closes at the end, second one more charged than the first, so Im taking that as a good sign. My dhv is very high with her and we have good rapport. I know she wants me to chase her to some extent as she told a mutual friend as much (never quite sure when chasing becomes creepy/needy though)

    However the last set of text's between us havent exactly gone the way I expected (here is the break down)

    Me: What sort of tyroubles you causing today missy? A lot I hope :-)
    Her (3 hrs later): Bah! Only just got in from work an hour ago. Loong day. Hows half term shaping up
    Me(2.5 hrs later): Good thanks, working, chilling, running and cooking. Since you seem so down on your day lets go into the city on modnay and have some fun ;-)
    Her (next day): The city city? I know nothing of this place
    Me: (2 hrs later): You know nothing of the city? You live in it. You know you are cute, in a strange kind of way
    :-)
    Her (2 hrs later): True story. I avoid the city city, its where my sister works
    Me (2 hrs later): Sister issues? Do tell?! Well thankfully I didnt mean the city city, I just meant London
    Her (3 hrs later): Good god! Ive been there to be sure! We just dont get on too well
    Me (1 hr later - accidental text, must have sent while in pocket): Sorry to
    Her (1 min later): Que?
    Me (1.5 hrs later): Oops, sent accidentally. Meant to say sorry to hear that. F'd up my ML training dates, actually leaving sunday night. You free sat night/sun day
    Her (30 mins later): Out at the grand for adrians birthday after comicon. Will probably not be outta bed til lunchtime sunday :/ Sorry

    And that is where I have left it yesterday. 2 questions, 1) what did I do wrong ( i have some ideas but it'd be good to get others opinions), 2) where do I take it from here? Was thinking along the lines of

    "Because Im busy all next week I dont have much free time. However am headed to a free gig in London on Friday. So Friday or I'll just have to see you in the near future."

    Too much? Too boring? Too demanding?

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    Default Re: Still more advice needed please

    Well, i would say friday or nothing she will probably call your bluff. Just tell her to have fun at the party, too bad you can't meet up, then go cold on her and do NOT text her again. I think it could possibly turn the tables. You need to be a bit more flirty in your initial texts.

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    Default Re: Still more advice needed please

    So you are advocating NOT inviting her out Friday even though this would be last chance i would get to physically game her in person for well over a week. Im very conscious/worried of waiting too long and losing whatever level of attraction we had built up.

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    Default Re: Still more advice needed please

    I messed up that post, i mean "I would say invite her friday"


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