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    Default I'm stuck!!!! WTF????

    Hey guys, so I meet this women from online. We meet up twice and on the second date she asked me to stay the night! I live close to her and decided why not. Yes it happened and she was really into me. We really hit it off and I wasnít trying to show to much interested at that time. She would call once to twice a day around this time. But after the second date I went beta. I think I showed too much interest after staying at her place. (fark!)

    Anyway she got sick with and ended up in hospital for a couple of days and we werenít really talking that much. I would call and txt every couple of days and she was responsive but kinda cold. Thatís when I started showing to much interest. I asked if she wanted me to come over and check up on her and she wasnít interested. Kinda cold towards me but would answer all txt and calls. Anyway about a week ago I txted her as I was unsure to wtf we were, (dating, friends with benefits blab blab la) I simply asked how she was going just to check in. we spoke a bit and she said she liked her space. So it ended up with her saying she didnít want a relationship anymore and I just stoped responding.

    Yesterday 6 days after that convo. She sends me a txt saying ďhey how are you?Ē I respond with a standard work stuff blab la bla. And told her to take care.


    Iíd like to know if Iíd have a chance still with this and if I could turn it around. I was thinking in a few days re-opening and trying to get her out again. Iím stuck guys!!!

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    Default Re: I'm stuck!!!! WTF????

    Sounds like you might have another chance. But then again she might want to just keep you close, friend close. Especially if she's the type that has to keep a friend that she slept with so she doesn't come off as an easy woman.

    Check out High Tower's texting game rules. It should really help.

    Don't come off as needy. You're not her boyfriend so you don't need to be there at her beck and call. Even then you don't need to be her bit*h. The girl should be the one asking you "What are we?!"

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    Default Re: I'm stuck!!!! WTF????

    I'm following a guide with txting. I guess the one thing I'm wondering is what my next move is? She keeps telling me about work and how stressful it is bla bla bla I want to get it back to flirting and fun just not sure how to transition into it

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    Default Re: I'm stuck!!!! WTF????

    Use some dhv. You were needy and she lost interest so you need to show her that you are an alpha male and that she was lucky to be with you. Show that her rejecting you didn't affect you in anyway. Be cheerful when texting her and show that you have other friends/hobbies/responsibilities that keep you busy and you don't need her. YOU are the prize, and she should be chasing YOU!


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