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Thread: One hour date tonight, how to play it?

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    Default One hour date tonight, how to play it?

    OK, so I am meeting a girl tonight, but with our respective social lives we only have one hour to do this thing before we go our seperate ways.

    How should I play it - will be meeting her in town and itll be busy being a friday, so itll be hard to find a nice intimate place.

    Was thinking of just going full on Kino and escalation because of such a short time frame. Any other suggestions?

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    Default Re: One hour date tonight, how to play it?

    Yes, build Kino, lots of it, build rapport, and kiss her before ya go

    If you're at a bar or restaurant I always prefer to sit at the bar instead of a table, then you naturally sit side by side, it's hard to kino when they're across the table from you

    Just build some rapport and talk about your next date

    Have fun, make her interested, have interesting things to talk about, cube game is good for this type of thing too
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    Default Re: One hour date tonight, how to play it?

    You've already said that you have a pretty busy social life. Drive that home and let her know [in the right ways of course] that you are a busy man and that you are doing her a favor in making time for her. I assume this is the first date for you two.

    I would take her somewhere simple. Wouldn't really go for intimate. Of course Kino escalate and build rapport like you said. Keep the conversation light and go through your normal progressions.

    Hope that helps. Give us an update and let us know how it goes!!

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    Default Re: One hour date tonight, how to play it?

    Just a quick update, meet up went well, quite a bit of Kino and escalation which ended up with her chewing my face off (and biting my lower lip forcefully - ouch) on the way to the station.

    She is keen to meet up again and we played a little betting game on the way home which I won and now she has to kiss me wherever I like when we meet up again, while its bad that our next meet up is in a very public place, it's good in that it helps to build sexual Tension. She has already texted me and said she is looking forward to the next meet up and we are already laying down sexual escalation with all the things we could do to each other if we were not going to be in such a public place.

    Cheers for the advice guys, is appreciated.

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    Default Re: One hour date tonight, how to play it?

    You are going on a first date. Great time to take a moment and think about first date questions and topics of conversation.

    A great rule is the 80-20 or 70-30 rule – let her do 80% or 70% of the talk.
    Ask her open questions. A closed question is a question that requires a yes or no answer. Those don’t take you very far when it comes to conversation. Open questions are usually questions starting with what, how, where,etc.
    We are going to assume that you are out on a date with a woman you like and she is interested in getting to know you, too. (Why would she go out on a date with you otherwise?) Ask her questions to get to know her better. Show that you are interested in your comments. She will reciprocate by asking you questions to know about you. It is only natural. It is human nature.
    Keep the questions fun. It is your first date, after all. Don’t go into arenas such as ex-boyfriends. There will be a better time for those topics. Have fun.
    LISTEN. One part is asking questions. The second part is listening to her answers. How can you make intelligent comments if you are up in your head having a conversation with the voices in your own mind?

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    Default Re: One hour date tonight, how to play it?

    Look for a decent location, show manners, be funny and honest.I think thats enough for your short date. Good Luck!


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