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Thread: Vecen's guide to online game!

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    Default Re: Vecen's guide to online game!

    Great post; I think you're right that it's all a number's game. Female friends have told me that there are so many factors that make a woman decide whether or not to message back that the only thing you can really do is message a bunch and see who bites. A friend of mine said he's had luck with an automatic messaging service called Spam Her Clam (not trying to degrade, that's just the name of the product). Has anyone else heard of it? Thinking I might give it a try.

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    Default Re: Vecen's guide to online game!

    Thanks t-mal, so you are saying, dont get into what I really do or what my interests really are? Basically shorten everything up a bit??

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    Default Re: Vecen's guide to online game!

    So you said make a voice call the make sure she's real.

    Got any tips on the content of this call?
    Some girl gave me her gmail and her phone number on the first message.

    What's a way to make a call to check, but also not look like you're checking?
    I am not sure I want to set up a date yet cuz I have shit going on until around the 7th of May and that seems way to far out to make a date

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    Default Re: Vecen's guide to online game!

    Actually I decided I think I'll play some text game till i'm more free.
    We didn't talk about much at all online so I hardly have a baseline.
    I'm thinking this for my text (mind you this is first contact):
    "So you're my online stalker! My profile is 'Silly'"

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    Default Re: Vecen's guide to online game!

    Thank you Autismus, and Vecan, Both points of veiw reveal several flaws in my similar online misdirections.

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    Default Re: Vecen's guide to online game!

    i have another issue.
    last night i went to this halloween party. today a girl contacts me on tagged. she had seen me there last night. the conversation went on and on for about an hour. at one point i tell her my facebook name so she could add me. then she tells me that she only adds people she knows personally. so i tell her we should get to know each other personally. she lol`s and replies: 'well maybe.after all, this is a small town...'
    to end the conversation i told her that i have to go now to help a friend.

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    Default Re: Vecen's guide to online game!

    Quote Originally Posted by quinno View Post
    Thanks t-mal, so you are saying, dont get into what I really do or what my interests really are? Basically shorten everything up a bit??
    What T-Mal is saying is to stay away from being ridiculous (in your profile). Basically, everything risky, be it special humour or cocky/funny should be avoided if possible, when texting, including in the profile. The reason for this is simply, you only have text to express yourself and the room for misunderstanding without voice, tonality, gesture and body language is just too big. If you do this in a O-O-O interaction, you can control this things, not online.

    Instead of "filling in the blanks" like in a form, add some mistery and describe rather than name it as it is, so that it makes the reader engaged and wanting her know more. Read some ads or sales copy, so you know how pros use language to evoque interest, curiosity and the need for more.

    Hope that helps!
    sedux

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    Default Re: Vecen's guide to online game!

    Hey Vecen, a lot of what you said made sense to me, except for going for the Number Close at the end of the initial msg in situation 1. Isn't this too much? Like demonstrating neediness?
    I just started on pof a couple of days ago, with marginal success, but I'm playing the numbers game. I hit up most girls I'm so-so interested in with canned stuff that I came up with, with VERY little success, and I'm getting the hang of writing something witty about their personal details. This works much better, and I used to be good at it years ago, but I'm out of practice and times change.
    I'm going to start a new thread documenting my failures on PoF, but if you could help me understand the number thing I'd appreciate it.

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    Default Re: Vecen's guide to online game!

    "1. Online game is NOT real-life game transferred over."

    Well f*ck.

    Back to the drawing board...

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    Default Re: Vecen's guide to online game!

    Good stuff. Something that wasn't mentioned that may seem obvious but sometimes isn't, is be aware of the times you are sending messages out to girls.

    If they receive a message at 8PM on a Friday, they'll probably be wondering why the hell you say you're an interesting guy...if you're sending them a message at 8PM on a Friday. Even if it's from a phone App (OKC, POF, Tinder, w/e), it's the same concept as texting game, right? If you're "busy," be busy.


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