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Thread: urgent! Help!!

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    Default urgent! Help!!

    Fark, been gaming hard. Give me pointers hints tips!! HIT ME!!! AAAHHHH hahaha




    me
    10/29/2012 12:46:50 AM
    Whats your number I'll send it
    HB9
    10/29/2012 12:47:08 AM
    Ohhhhh number exchange....
    HB9
    10/29/2012 12:47:35 AM
    Is this a trick to get my number?
    me
    10/29/2012 12:47:39 AM
    Scarrry!!!!
    HB9
    10/29/2012 12:48:09 AM
    I'd say so !
    me
    10/29/2012 12:53:25 AM
    Haha!
    HB9
    10/29/2012 12:53:50 AM
    Curiosity killed the cat you know...
    me
    10/29/2012 12:55:11 AM
    When your comfortable sending your number I'll show you!
    HB9
    10/29/2012 12:56:08 AM
    If I ever will be! Put it up as one of your pictures !
    me
    10/29/2012 12:57:23 AM
    You ask for a lot of effort :P miss classy that can be your nickname
    HB9
    10/29/2012 12:58:27 AM
    It's really not that much effort :P. ok I like it, even if you're trying to be all ironic & shit haha
    me
    10/29/2012 1:01:22 AM
    Well you see, I find with my hunting people hide behind messages and build a character of themselves but when it comes to the crunch of speaking to them they are a completely different person
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:02:59 AM
    Lol how many times have you been disappointed ? I think I'm the same in real life. Maybe not straight away, but til we actually get to know each other and I get comfortable
    me
    10/29/2012 1:07:48 AM
    That's for me to know and for you to wonder :P!!! I think your a really outgoing, smart and confident person but inside there lies a women who is shy and sensitive towards males when you really get to know you! But you need to put up walls so the wrong guy doesn't knock it down and screw you over
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:10:05 AM
    I don't wonder, I find out haha. Oh my lordd step back Dr. Phil hahahha. I am outgoing, but not so smart and it's probably a false confidence. Cos I'm not a confident chick, hate to admit it. And I don't think I'm scared or getting screwed over. I bounce back

    me
    10/29/2012 1:13:38 AM
    Lost 5 points :P confidence is such a sexy attribute for women to hold! But 5 points back because you bounce back and on the market! Ps Dr Phill is my homeboy!!! Don't knock him
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:15:33 AM
    Lost 7 points cos you took my points away haha. Yeah it is but unfortunately confidence is a difficult attribute to attain. Oh I'm sure he is :P taught him everything he knows huh ? Lol
    me
    10/29/2012 1:16:27 AM
    Me and him go way way back!!!
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:17:43 AM
    Seems like it. I'm not even reading this stupid book lol
    me
    10/29/2012 1:20:14 AM
    Well, later on a phone convo? You can call me on pvt? I need food in me!!
    me
    10/29/2012 1:22:05 AM
    Wait you do have a mobile right?
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:22:48 AM
    Who said anything bout communicating verbally ?! Yes toby, I have a mobile. Lol
    me
    10/29/2012 1:23:31 AM
    Why not? Pof chat sucks
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:24:24 AM
    Pof is pretty much texting brah
    me
    10/29/2012 1:43:47 AM
    Na, a lot different
    me
    10/29/2012 1:47:47 AM
    It's more personal! And you get to see pretty pictures haha
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:50:40 AM
    Haha yes it is but personal is over rated. What picturessssss !! >.<
    me
    10/29/2012 1:52:16 AM
    If your lucky! One day you will see them :P your making it sound a lot more interesting that what it is
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:53:27 AM
    Oh well with that comment you've killed my interest :P
    me
    10/29/2012 1:54:28 AM
    I have Dr Phill to work though this I shall be good



    HB9
    10/29/2012 2:13:57 AM
    Lol you're weird
    me
    10/29/2012 2:19:43 AM
    I'm not weird, I'm limited edition!!! How's this book going?
    HB9
    10/29/2012 2:20:19 AM
    Ditched it she's ago. Just went for a quick run lol
    me
    10/29/2012 2:23:05 AM
    Such a good day for a stroll along the beach!
    HB9
    10/29/2012 2:23:35 AM
    It is a lovely night for it isn't it
    me
    10/29/2012 2:30:44 AM
    It's a full moon tonight!! Weirdo's are out, wait your back from your run :P
    HB9
    10/29/2012 2:32:14 AM
    Haha asif if! Shut up, you're weirder than me! Not gonna lie, sometimes you say things.. And I have no idea what you're on about haha.
    me
    10/29/2012 2:38:20 AM
    I told you I'm not weird, I'm limited edition!!! You do understand that when there is a full moon people go loopy?
    HB9
    10/29/2012 2:39:34 AM
    Haha ok ok limited edition :P. actually I don't believe that! Such a cop out broo
    me
    10/29/2012 2:42:52 AM
    Explain yourself miss classy!!!!!!!

    HB9


    10/29/2012 2:43:51 AM
    I mean people just need an excuse to act weird all the time!! The moon had nothing to do with it !! Just admit you're unusual !!!

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    Default Re: urgent! Help!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Tobz45 View Post
    Fark, been gaming hard. Give me pointers hints tips!! HIT ME!!! AAAHHHH hahaha




    me
    10/29/2012 12:46:50 AM
    Whats your number I'll send it
    HB9
    10/29/2012 12:47:08 AM
    Ohhhhh number exchange....
    HB9
    10/29/2012 12:47:35 AM
    Is this a trick to get my number?

    Shouldda negged and/or disqualified here
    > "Wow, paranoid lol never mind I'll just add it to an album online"

    me
    10/29/2012 12:47:39 AM
    Scarrry!!!!
    HB9
    10/29/2012 12:48:09 AM
    I'd say so !
    me
    10/29/2012 12:53:25 AM
    Haha!
    HB9
    10/29/2012 12:53:50 AM
    Curiosity killed the cat you know...

    > "You're more paranoid than my veteran uncle, do you also make your own pork jerkey because he loves that sh1t :P"

    me
    10/29/2012 12:55:11 AM
    When your comfortable sending your number I'll show you!

    NOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!! Offering yourself on her terms.... "when she's ready".... non-alpha / chasing

    HB9
    10/29/2012 12:56:08 AM
    If I ever will be! Put it up as one of your pictures !
    me
    10/29/2012 12:57:23 AM
    You ask for a lot of effort :P miss classy that can be your nickname

    Ehhh, this would be good if it wasn't so easy to upload photos

    HB9
    10/29/2012 12:58:27 AM
    It's really not that much effort :P. ok I like it, even if you're trying to be all ironic & sh1t haha

    Basically she's telling you that you didn't pass her Sh1t Test

    me
    10/29/2012 1:01:22 AM
    Well you see, I find with my hunting people hide behind messages and build a character of themselves but when it comes to the crunch of speaking to them they are a completely different person

    That's ^ actually pretty good, telling her that her behavior was borderline disqualifier...

    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:02:59 AM
    Lol how many times have you been disappointed ? I think I'm the same in real life. Maybe not straight away, but til we actually get to know each other and I get comfortable

    > "I understand, here's the picture, also [witty comment to reward her for disclosing her desire to build more comfort]"....

    me
    10/29/2012 1:07:48 AM
    That's for me to know and for you to wonder :P!!! NOOO!!! Don't pull at her so much! I think your a really outgoing, smart and confident person but inside there lies a women who is shy and sensitive towards males when you really get to know you! But you need to put up walls so the wrong guy doesn't knock it down and screw you over

    I see you're trying to engage her emotionally here ^ but it's waaay too early. Talking about her realness inside etc should happen during comfort building, if you do it now (during attraction) then it gives her waaay too much validation and tells her that you're thinking about her (potentially more than she's thinking about you).

    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:10:05 AM
    I don't wonder, I find out haha. Oh my lordd step back Dr. Phil hahahha. I am outgoing, but not so smart and it's probably a false confidence. Cos I'm not a confident chick, hate to admit it. And I don't think I'm scared or getting screwed over. I bounce back


    This ^ seems like confiding, but I think it's more of a qualifying sh1t test, or maybe even the beginning of a rant about past bf's

    me
    10/29/2012 1:13:38 AM
    Lost 5 points :P confidence is such a sexy attribute for women to hold! But 5 points back because you bounce back and on the market! Ps Dr Phill is my homeboy!!! Don't knock him
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:15:33 AM
    Lost 7 points cos you took my points away haha. Yeah it is but unfortunately confidence is a difficult attribute to attain. Oh I'm sure he is :P taught him everything he knows huh ? Lol


    Okay though... from this ^ it seems like it might be working. From here on out she seems pretty engaged and the banter is good...

    me
    10/29/2012 1:16:27 AM
    Me and him go way way back!!!
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:17:43 AM
    Seems like it. I'm not even reading this stupid book lol
    me
    10/29/2012 1:20:14 AM
    Well, later on a phone convo? You can call me on pvt? I need food in me!!
    me
    10/29/2012 1:22:05 AM
    Wait you do have a mobile right?
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:22:48 AM
    Who said anything bout communicating verbally ?! Yes toby, I have a mobile. Lol
    me
    10/29/2012 1:23:31 AM
    Why not? Pof chat sucks
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:24:24 AM
    Pof is pretty much texting brah
    me
    10/29/2012 1:43:47 AM
    Na, a lot different
    me
    10/29/2012 1:47:47 AM
    It's more personal! And you get to see pretty pictures haha
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:50:40 AM
    Haha yes it is but personal is over rated. What picturessssss !! >.<
    me
    10/29/2012 1:52:16 AM
    If your lucky! One day you will see them :P your making it sound a lot more interesting that what it is
    HB9
    10/29/2012 1:53:27 AM
    Oh well with that comment you've killed my interest :P
    me
    10/29/2012 1:54:28 AM
    I have Dr Phill to work though this I shall be good



    HB9
    10/29/2012 2:13:57 AM
    Lol you're weird
    me
    10/29/2012 2:19:43 AM
    I'm not weird, I'm limited edition!!! How's this book going?
    HB9
    10/29/2012 2:20:19 AM
    Ditched it she's ago. Just went for a quick run lol
    me
    10/29/2012 2:23:05 AM
    Such a good day for a stroll along the beach!
    HB9
    10/29/2012 2:23:35 AM
    It is a lovely night for it isn't it
    me
    10/29/2012 2:30:44 AM
    It's a full moon tonight!! Weirdo's are out, wait your back from your run :P
    HB9
    10/29/2012 2:32:14 AM
    Haha asif if! Shut up, you're weirder than me! Not gonna lie, sometimes you say things.. And I have no idea what you're on about haha.
    me
    10/29/2012 2:38:20 AM
    I told you I'm not weird, I'm limited edition!!! You do understand that when there is a full moon people go loopy?
    HB9
    10/29/2012 2:39:34 AM
    Haha ok ok limited edition :P. actually I don't believe that! Such a cop out broo
    me
    10/29/2012 2:42:52 AM
    Explain yourself miss classy!!!!!!!

    HB9
    10/29/2012 2:43:51 AM
    I mean people just need an excuse to act weird all the time!! The moon had nothing to do with it !! Just admit you're unusual !!!
    There's a few things I might have done differently at the beginning but it seems to have worked for you, so keep it going. I'd only suggest to get a few more good bantering chats with her and not push for her number any more. You don't want to be chasing her, let her get comfortable with you (maybe a week or two of online chatting) then try to set up a date without getting the number (let her suggest it as a way to better coordinate the meetup).

    That's my advice, but I'm by no means an online dating expert
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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