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    Default Fear of text going no where?

    Hey guys, so when I text girls there's always a fear I have of the conversation going no where, or not having anything to talk about. Does anyone have some tips to avoid this happening?

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    Default Re: Fear of text going no where?

    man their are like a dozen texting guides on this site, here are some of the best ones
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...ame-rules.html

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...age-games.html

    this should get the ball rolling, make sure all your texts are fun and light hearted, and use lots of smiley faces

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    Default Re: Fear of text going no where?

    aha man, ive read all those. I just run into parts in the convo when theres nothing left to be said. I guess that would be a good time to cut the convo though?

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    Default Re: Fear of text going no where?

    yeah, deffinately cut the convo after 10-15 texts sent, make sure you leave the convo on good terms, the trick is to end it before you run out of things to say

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    Default Re: Fear of text going no where?

    I would keep a personal log of cold texts with great responses. I'd refine them as time goes on, but I have certain text messages that are VERY consistent and work wonders.

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    Default Re: Fear of text going no where?

    yeah, deffinately cut the convo after 10-15 texts sent, make sure you leave the convo on good terms, the trick is to end it before you run out of things to say
    meteora, does this apply to fb chat too? i know it's a guideline but still

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    Default Re: Fear of text going no where?

    it applies to all forms of comunication, keeping the convo short and flirty will ensure the best results, always end the convo on a good note before things go south (eventualy you will wear out your welcome) i like to keep all my convo's under thirty minute in person, under 5 minutes on the phone, and under 10-15 messages when texting (not saying that you have to, its just that i always end the convo before the girl gets bored/before i run out of stuff to talk about) btw i always prep a fallback (things to talk about when the situation doesn't offer me any good topics) wich is especialy important when having a convo on the phone or before a date (you don't want to have any awekward silences)

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    Default Re: Fear of text going no where?

    right on, yeah that makes sense, even under 30min dates? i'm just curious cause to me that seems short but when i think about it i usually do the same but around the 45min mark cause it's usually lunch haha

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    Default Re: Fear of text going no where?

    yeah, but thats more of a personal prefferance than an actual rule, but i never go out with a girl for more than an hour tops (if i'm taking her out to dinner or something) but the more time you spend with her, the more likely it is that you'll fail one of her sh!t tests

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    Default Re: Fear of text going no where?

    The key is, don't try to have a "conversation" over text messages.
    Use texting as a way to flirt & hook the girl... Build curiosity & attraction.

    Just keep it light & playful, rather than getting into chi-chat about mundane, every-day stuff.

    Tease, banter, flirt & be fun!!



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