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Hey guys, I'm pretty new to this PUA thing. I've looked online for tips and stuff before, usually when I'm making progress with someone and have a question (Yahoo answers LOL).
-Known as a really nice girl, as in she is never mean and makes friends with lots of people. Not quite flirty but close.
-From a different country; air force base in Euro
-Probably good at friendzoning - it seems like many have tried, not many try anymore.
-'Met' her at a frat; had suspicions that there was already attraction. I'd caught her looking/staring at me before twice. We hit it off, she had no problem sitting really close to me (both drunk) but at one point got up and sat with someone else before returning later on.
-Started seeing her around at the library, she said she had been looking for me around campus etc, on several different occasions she initiated contact, she's complemented, teased, initiated Kino.
-Halloween weekend. We had loose plans to meet up some time that night at some frat parties, but when I found her I lost her in a crowd! I drunk texted her (fark) "lost" and she asked where I was, but it could be because she's nice and thought I was lost.
-She called me that night asking where I was as she was heading back to her dorm, I ended up seeing her in the lobby and around the building but nothing happened, we just talked briefly. I texted her the next day apologizing for losing her and we talked until I ended it when she sent a really brief text. She texted me the next day asking about classes, and she ended it in a similar manner.
To me it seems like I've been getting good signs, then she takes it away with a bad sign haha
What should I be doing to improve my situation?
What am I doing wrong?
What could I be doing?
I posted this more than once, let me know if that's bad too haha.