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    Default First HB10 - need help!

    [Double thread. This one is closed. Click here for the other one.]


    Hey guys, I'm pretty new to this PUA thing. I've looked online for tips and stuff before, usually when I'm making progress with someone and have a question (Yahoo answers LOL).

    Ok, HB10:

    -Known as a really nice girl, as in she is never mean and makes friends with lots of people. Not quite flirty but close.
    -From a different country; air force base in Euro
    -Probably good at friendzoning - it seems like many have tried, not many try anymore.

    My experiences:

    -'Met' her at a frat; had suspicions that there was already attraction. I'd caught her looking/staring at me before twice. We hit it off, she had no problem sitting really close to me (both drunk) but at one point got up and sat with someone else before returning later on.

    -Started seeing her around at the library, she said she had been looking for me around campus etc, on several different occasions she initiated contact, she's complemented, teased, initiated Kino.

    -Halloween weekend. We had loose plans to meet up some time that night at some frat parties, but when I found her I lost her in a crowd! I drunk texted her (fark) "lost" and she asked where I was, but it could be because she's nice and thought I was lost.

    -She called me that night asking where I was as she was heading back to her dorm, I ended up seeing her in the lobby and around the building but nothing happened, we just talked briefly. I texted her the next day apologizing for losing her and we talked until I ended it when she sent a really brief text. She texted me the next day asking about classes, and she ended it in a similar manner.


    To me it seems like I've been getting good signs, then she takes it away with a bad sign haha



    What should I be doing to improve my situation?
    What am I doing wrong?
    What could I be doing?

    I posted this more than once, let me know if that's bad too haha.
    Last edited by Virgil; 10-30-2012 at 08:09 AM.

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    Default Re: First HB10 - need help!

    its not bad lol sometimes things never get commented on so you kinda have to post it again
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: First HB10 - need help!

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    its not bad lol sometimes things never get commented on so you kinda have to post it again
    haha thanks for that and the advice. it's such a good resource especially when I get replies hahaha

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    Default Re: First HB10 - need help!

    lol well i repost stuff to get a reply. i try to comment on almost anyones questions on here just to help them in any way. i believe everyone should get at least one answer
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: First HB10 - need help!

    Dont repost stuff. The more experienced board members will not answer. Also, it reeks of desperation which is something you should not be conforming to.


    Look, there are rules to this. Thats why they call it a game.

    When the HB acknowledged you, whether it be with her eyes or whatever the sands of the hour glass begins. What I mean by that is that you have to aggressively approach her as if you are applying for a job. You need to show her that you dont want to be that nice friendly guy but a guy who finds her sexually\physically attractive.

    You know the old saying, "Go hard or go home?". You go hard and if she puts you in the friend-zone, flakes, or ignore you then you can drop another post here.


    Good luck.
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    Default Re: First HB10 - need help!

    what if it doesnt get a response are we suppose to let the person that post have no answer to his question? i see way to many 0 comments on here
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: First HB10 - need help!

    You know when it comes to dating its almost the same questions gets asked and its almost the same answers gets posted. The formula for the game from beginning to end is no different for each situation, its actually the same.

    Also, some posters come here and make a thread and then post once or couple times and disappears. They are just taking and not giving back. In addition, there is enough threads here that teaches good stuff or provide a good base. You have to actively seek knowledge.

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    what if it doesnt get a response are we suppose to let the person that post have no answer to his question? i see way to many 0 comments on here
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    Default Re: First HB10 - need help!

    Quote Originally Posted by topgunningit View Post
    Dont repost stuff. The more experienced board members will not answer. Also, it reeks of desperation which is something you should not be conforming to.


    Look, there are rules to this. Thats why they call it a game.

    When the HB acknowledged you, whether it be with her eyes or whatever the sands of the hour glass begins. What I mean by that is that you have to aggressively approach her as if you are applying for a job. You need to show her that you dont want to be that nice friendly guy but a guy who finds her sexually\physically attractive.

    You know the old saying, "Go hard or go home?". You go hard and if she puts you in the friend-zone, flakes, or ignore you then you can drop another post here.


    Good luck.

    Wow - thanks for the response. I definitely understand what you're saying - I'm still getting used to the community. I'll be searching before I post now I guess haha

    If there's anything else you'd like to add feel free.

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    Default Re: First HB10 - need help!

    [I'm closing this thread because it's double and only has replies about threads and reposting instead of the OP's questions, whereas the other one is focussed on the OP.

    And yes, nearly every question asked is already covered. Using the search button can get you far.]


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