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    Default Flaky Girl... Think I'll Just Move On!

    Below is a copy of the conversation I've been having with an HB8. She's one of those one line response types. not sure its worth the effort.


    James_8_910/30/2012 5:30:24 AM
    I like wine but I prefer my fish cooked... shame we could have had something special ; )

    HB8/30/2012 5:33:14 AM
    Shame

    James_8_910/30/2012 5:37:02 AM
    Thanks for the message. I always smile when someone is so chatty right off the bat! Hope your day is filled with awesomeness! X ( Credit to T-mal for this one)

    HB8 /30/2012 6:04:31 AM
    Hahaha! Thanks and yourself!


    I'm not sure if I'm going to bother to continuing. I might leave it a day and try again but she seems like a lost cause.

    Any thoughts? I can only think that I should have come up with a better opener

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    Default Re: Flaky Girl... Think I'll Just Move On!

    just keep warming her up. she has her shield up
    im on a different level

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    sidewinder89 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Flaky Girl... Think I'll Just Move On!

    How do I keep warming her up exactly, its winter in the arctic right now

    The opener was because she said she liked wine and sushi and that was basically her profile

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    Default Re: Flaky Girl... Think I'll Just Move On!

    I agree with Hopeful33

    Because, sometimes it takes a few rounds of chipping away at the b1tch shield... then it begins to crumble.

    If nothing else, keep experimenting with her & trying different angles.
    I did that a LOT early on.

    It kinda became a game to me, just to see what I could get away with & how long I could continue getting her to interact.
    (And that's when I discovered it's possible to "dismantle a wall" one brick at a time.)

    The things that worked the best for me with girls like this, were the most random, silly text messages!

    "Hmmm.. sandwiches made by someone else are often the best. Not sure why that is..."

    "I swear the waitress had a mustache when I went to lunch today!! Yosemite Sam would be sooooo jealous!!"

    "A basket of puppies & an ice cold beer... I could use ONE of these things right now."


    They're not questions directed at her and they actually don't require a reply at all; so there's no pressure on her, which will make her feel more at ease. (and usually results in the girl WANTING to reply).

    OR....

    You can ask questions, but make THEM random & semi-ridiculous too.

    "Heya little kitten, are you a pancakes or waffles kind of girl?"

    "Why do some people not realize, we CAN see them picking their noses while they're driving!? LOL!"


    And for the "hard to get a response of any kind" type of girl:

    "Ya know, this phone isn't gonna text itself... be a sport & help a brotha out. "



    But definitely keep plugging away! If if, for no other reason than experience.


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    Default Re: Flaky Girl... Think I'll Just Move On!

    Agreed. Experimentation is the most important yet easiest aspects of online game, mostly because you have the cloak of the internet to protect you.
    "My enemies are advanced, bold, intelligent and powerful. But I am evolved"
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    Default Re: Flaky Girl... Think I'll Just Move On!

    I'm getting good results with "so you're clearly a girl that would be prepare to lie about where we met?" ; )

    I then move into, role -play, "so where did we meet? we need to get our cover straight"


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