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    thecasualpua is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Saw a girl that i know on a dating site....

    So i was bored and decided to make a profile on match for laughs, but then i came across someone that i actually know. She's beautiful has an amazing style and from what i know an awesome personality to boot. I'm currently low on funds so i didn't make a 100% account, but I have this girl on facebook. I was wondering if that would be too wierd to message her about it in a joking way..but if i did message her something what lines should i follow in order to do it the right way..I really could use some help from the fellow PUAs..never been in this situation...

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    Default Re: Saw a girl that i know on a dating site....

    ive had this happen before to myself and the girl in question was also amazing kinda to the point where you think why does she even need a dating site anyway i mailed her on the dating site as it was a free one and said somthing along the lines of " you know if u wanted to date you could of just mailed me rather then going through all the hassle of creating this account" although it didnt get a reply i think thats down to the girl rather then the message

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    Default Re: Saw a girl that i know on a dating site....

    Use the match info to your advantage...

    But game her directly on FB, & DON'T mention her match profile.

    You already know she's looking for someone, & she's on a dating site.
    Just message her on FB & be fun, friendly, interesting & flirty.

    You might be able to hook things up that way & not have to pay for match.



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    Default Re: Saw a girl that i know on a dating site....

    @T-Mal i planned on using the match info..good thing is i already am in a current conversation with her. She lost her cat blah blah blah..mine looks the EXACT same as her's and i just asked her last night if she had found it and she replied with "No " is there a good response i could use to flip the script comfort her and then move into a different conversation?

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    Default Re: Saw a girl that i know on a dating site....

    That's a tough spot because, you want to express empathy & sympathy for sure. But you DON'T want to dwell on the negative topic. So transitioning away needs to be smooth as silk.

    You could offer to help her look for the cat. (OR... depending on how attached you are to your cat, you could "donate" yours for the cause... LOL!)



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    Default Re: Saw a girl that i know on a dating site....

    LOL my cat is not leaving my house that's a fact! had that thing for like 15 years! but here's the problem man she lost the cat like 2 weeks ago..so i dont think it's logical that we're gonna find it..what would you use to transition "as smooth as silk" i can express the empathy for sure, but the transition is a work in progress..


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