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    Default OKCupid is RIDICULOUS, no one viewing me?

    I have views on POF, but OKCupid is ridiculous.

    Maybe women have it set up so that I can't see who views me?

    I have the same profile on POF but minus certain headings simply because I don't know if I should include all of that on POF.

    What do you guys think, less is more? Should I condense it?

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    Default Re: OKCupid is RIDICULOUS, no one viewing me?

    I found OK Cupid to be less functional & interactive than POF or Match.com, when I used the Online Dating sites.
    So, you're NOT crazy!

    Yes, girls can do "anonymous" browsing, so you don't always know who looks at your profile.

    I honestly had the most impressive results from POF & Match. (I subscribed to match.com for a one month trial.... And met my fiancee in the 2nd week.)

    BUT...when I first figured out the whole "online dating" thing, & how to set up a bangin profile, the first several successful interactions came from POF!

    I did have success on OKC.... but I despised the format of the site & was only on there for about a week.
    So, my "lay count" was only 3 girls from OKC.

    With POF, I "hooked / netted" a couple dozen over a 4 month period.

    And Match.com? Just one..... But I made her my Fiancee, so I'm gonna have to say "Ultimate Success"

    Anyway, to sum it up:
    OK Cupid pretty much blows!!


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    Default Re: OKCupid is RIDICULOUS, no one viewing me?

    I was thinking on checking out dating sites to meet cougars, anygood ones?

    also my halloween idea:
    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...html#post66952
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: OKCupid is RIDICULOUS, no one viewing me?

    Yeah OKcupid is a little slow. I have a few promising conversations going but you have to be the one to initiate.

    Online dating is a numbers game... that being said, send out a good opener that shows you've read their profile. Avoid the copy and paste as it goes straight in the bin.

    Try POF, its become the only one I'm really active on. I am considering match but I don't want to pay for a profile whilst I'm still learning the ropes of online dating. I'd rather my mistakes didn't cost me anything... apart from a little dignity.

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    Default Re: OKCupid is RIDICULOUS, no one viewing me?

    Dude, first things first, go take an ice bath for 20 minutes. You need to chill. OK now, to get results anyway, you really need to be msging girls the first place so why are you so mad they aren't viewing you if you haven't even contacted them yet? Just run your regular game and every should work itself out. If you're really fearful, link me and I'll take a look.

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    Default Re: OKCupid is RIDICULOUS, no one viewing me?

    Wow I totally thought I linked to it, does this site delete links? I edited it so its not a hyperlink just in case.

    okcupid.com/profile/polishrunner

    urbancowboy, I think you're taking me out of context lol but thanks for your input

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    Default Re: OKCupid is RIDICULOUS, no one viewing me?

    Your profile kinda sucks but I know that's not what you asked. I'm gonna venture a guess that due to just how many people are on these sites, your profile is just buried with 1000 others. I personally like OKC (so far) bcuz girls are much more likely to send me interesting replies versus the bland ones I get on POF. Anyway, my advice is to send some good msgs and just watch what happens. I think I'm getting replies on something like a quarter of all my msgs sent so I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.

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    Default Re: OKCupid is RIDICULOUS, no one viewing me?

    Damn, you don't like it...

    I guess I won't be getting a message from you then *sigh*

    Should I rewrite, or just improvise?

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    Default Re: OKCupid is RIDICULOUS, no one viewing me?

    Quote Originally Posted by konman View Post
    Damn, you don't like it...

    I guess I won't be getting a message from you then *sigh*

    Should I rewrite, or just improvise?
    Before you do anything, look at an expert's advice on how to write a good online profile. I know what worked for me but that's not to say it'll work for you. Personally, I would rewrite but I'm not really the dude to ask. I think Batman and Cody are the resident "online dating" experts. Go to the Ask an Expert section and you'll see a thread where they compile what everyone's expertise is and you can search through their posts.

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    Default Re: OKCupid is RIDICULOUS, no one viewing me?

    I was looking for a post I saw on here the other day(I don't remember what thread)but I can't find it. Anyway, on it someone was saying how great POF is and that it's the best site online. I find it hard to believe anyone can have consistent success on there but I guess it's possible. Most of the women on there seem like they are only looking for LTR's are or just bored and not really serious.


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