So this is an update to another thread I have. Sorry, I can't link it since I'm under 150.
It was named, Ice cold freeze...now she wants Vegas. Maybe an older member/mod can link it for me?
Anyways, you might wanna visit the other thread to get some background info on how I met her, here's the TLR I left in the other thread and might shine some light here.
Met this girl. first she was ioi'ing, we txt back and forth. I don't think shes attracted as much anymore. told her to come to vegas i have extra room. if she does come, how should i calibrate myself, try to dhv? Freeze Out? give her attention? act like how i was the first time we met? My objective is to have fun on the trip, but I'm trying to score points with this chicka too.
So girl comes to Vegas with a friend of hers, things are pretty casual. Not much escalation on my part as I said I was there just to have fun. One notable thing that happen, one of the guys that was there walked in the bathroom and made an advance on her, I was peeing in the toilet (in the bathroom too but separated by a door...it's like a closet toilet room within a bathroom) and opened the door, which is when the guy just left. She was kinda weirded out by the incident cause they're just friends and she doesn't see him like that.
Next morning she talks to me about it again saying how weird that was but she also mentioned that she's not looking/interested in hooking up with any of us boys because she doesn't want to ruin the friendship/dynamic of the group. I told her I wasn't looking at a quick hookup either. (implying that, I'm not that type of guy to hit it and quit it and was more serious). I said, I'm really just trying to get to know you. She say's shes cool with that and smiled.
Fast forward to the next night, some drama happen and she was crying, I was there to support her and she said she appreciated me having her back and being so sweet to her, which is when we kissed. I told her that I was going down to her city to see my bestfriend and wanted to go to a concert we've been talking about. She mentions that she isn't going to that concert anymore and I said well, I'm not going to come down there unless I go to the concert. I also said, I'll only go if you goes, to which she replies, Ok, fine, I'll go if you go too.
Few days later, we're both back home from Vegas and she calls me to talk about the upcoming weekend. She tells me not to have any expectations this weekend because she's adamant on being just friends and that she just broke up with her ex 3 months ago, shes not looking for a relationship. Again, I told her, I'm not expecting anything from the trip, I'm coming down there to have fun. I also told her that I'm coming down there to hang out with her and get to know her better, that's all...
Honestly, I was going down there to have fun at the concert (it's actually a rave). I could see myself liking this girl but there's so much to consider; distance, she just got out of a 4 yr relationship, being in the ljbf zone. She's so afraid of hurting my feelings, but I'm a big boy and I want her to know that I'm not as head over heels about her as she thinks, I just want to open her up to the possibility of talking/dating. Anyone think there's anything wrong with that? TBH I was going to go to the concert and talk and dance with many different people and see if that raises any indication of jealousy from her. Advice would be appreciated guys. Thanks!!