hello i am new to this. i am not sure if i should trust my girl. or if i am being too paranoid. or if i should let things go. here is what happened:
my gf and i have dated for 7 months everything going great. she occasionally chats with her ex but this has been like 3 or 4 times since i met her. last week when they were chatting the ex started asking her stuff i did not like. he first asked her how was her sex life with me. she said it was really good. she asked how was his. he said his hands kept him busy. (removed by moderator) he then said it was really small and she joked to him agreeing really small. my gf then said "you know how it is". then she told him that they needed to stop talking about this because her bf (me) was coming. then they started chatting about other stuff.
when i got to her house she was not in a rush to close the message. i read it and got real pissed. after i cooled off i told her that i was upset because she did not tell him to stop and i did not like her responses to him. she told me that she was really sorry and she would not talk to him ever again because she doea not want me to get suspicious. i told her if i did the same thing how would she feel. she said she would have been pissed too and she said talking go ex's is a bad idea.
like i said this has been the only time it has ever happened. she had been honest and transparen about everything else. she asks me if i trUst her. i said yes but those type of converations make me suspicious. she agreed and promised she would not be talking to ex's