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Thread: Shes playing the "You're not telling me about yourself" card...

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    Default Shes playing the "You're not telling me about yourself" card...

    Is this a trap? I feel like it is. She brings up that she knows nothing about me but I know a lot about her.

    Brought it up twice today.

    Third time today "I have opened myself to u, told you a lot of personal things... its sad u dont feel the same way"

    I think i'll say "Thats cute, you're like a little puppy lol"

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    Default Re: Shes playing the "You're not telling me about yourself" card...

    If you've been chatting with a girl for a while then it's TOTALLY okay to start telling her about yourself.

    You just don't want to puke your entire life story all over her, when you first meet her, like a lot of guys do.

    But once you've established the fact that she IS interested, then absolutely let her start getting to know you & know more about you.


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    Default Re: Shes playing the "You're not telling me about yourself" card...

    Also depends how close u want to be with her. If u want an LTR, its totally ok to do (in the way TMal mentions). For an fbuddy, dont get too personal. Tell her personal things about how you feel about important relationship topics, not just facts about your life. If u share your feelings, she may think thats personal enough.

    If u want to throw out the occasional fact, do it at proper times...not when she asks u. Ex... u walk past a clothing store and mention how your sister works in a clothing store. Or your eating chinese and u mention how your family loves chinese. If she asks follow up questions, answer a few. But dont let it turn into an interview. Give out your info in bursts or peices.

    Personally, i give them a reason for not telling them my info. Like how i was let down by girls in the past and i value trustworthiness alot more now. Now im more guarded about giving out info. Bad boys being jaded by prior romance problems is a big deal to women (and reinforced by Hollywood lol).
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    Default Re: Shes playing the "You're not telling me about yourself" card...

    Sorry forgot one thing... for fbuddy ... call her bluff and say, "ok so ask me a personal question?"

    They usually get stumped by this. If u need time to answer (or if u prefer always) tell them u will tell them only if they do something for u. Can be anything but usually i use that as an opportunity to Isolate. As in "i'll tell u only if you'll walk over to the terrace with me."

    Usually, i say this after she has already shown reluctance to go somewhere private.
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