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Thread: Possible Flake - after amazing date

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    Default Possible Flake - after amazing date

    So I meet this girl the other day. We were sexting the next day. She sent some dirty pictures so I know she's pretty confident. We went out and had a great time. Lots of Kino and making out. She texted that night and said she had a great time. The next day we texted a couple of times. Here's the Convo
    (She told me the night before she was into some weird sh1t)

    Me: So what kind of weird sh1t r u in to?
    Her: Well ask me if I've done it, or will try it or wont lol what's ur fantasy I bet I can make it come true
    Me: do you really want to have this conversation? I've gotten in to some kinky sh1t.
    Her: Yes I really wanna have this yes
    Me: So what's the kinkest thing you've done and what's a fantasy that you haven't tried yet?
    Its been almost 24 hours and no response. What should I do? Respond back (if so,, then with what? I was thinking "So I guess you don't want to have this conversation then") or just wait her out and if she doesn't respond then just let her go? Thanks for any advice!

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    Default Re: Possible Flake?

    well after the date who initiated the conversation? And what ever you do dont respond back asking about continuing the conversation again this makes you sound needy.

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    Default Re: Possible Flake?

    She initially started the conversation by saying good morning the next day. Waited a few hours to respond at lunch. Had a few texts about stuff we talked about the night before. Then I asked her what kind of kinky shit she was in to. I know she's very sexual and we've already had a few very sexual conversations so I want to push the envelope.
    Her friend who I work with said that she really really liked me. This girl is hot and just turned 21 but definitely crazy telling me all kinds of bullshit like how she used to deal drugs and wasnt afraid to go back to jail and blah blah blah. I know she will never be serious girlfriend material but I kind of like the "bad girl" types and haven't had a cute younger girl with a hot body in a while. I can tell she is used to controlling guys but I really don't know how to play it with this one.

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    well it seems like with this situation its time for her to show and prove because the heat of things seems to be beyond texting from what I see. Its all about how you react to what shes saying so if shes telling me this threw text then im gonna relay to her that im not impressed unless it's expressed. First I would set up a date number two i wouldnt ask id just let her know that im available (give a couple open slots) and we should meet up to get a little more precise with our conversation. Get her to a intimate type of spot and start of with some Fluff talk and then just move into that sexual conversation an dont ask her anything just make an assumption about the kinky shit she likes to get into. If shes as sexual as you say she is she will pick up the slack and either correct you on your assumption or she'll comend you on being correct (either way it kicks things off). If you dont know where to take it from here let me know.
    If someone knows they are being chased they are in the drivers seat and will usually take advantage

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    Default Re: Possible Flake?

    instead of asking her whats the kinkiest thing she done,you couldve schedule a meet up. you shouldve responded with "youll have to find out" and bam,she seems DTF so it shouldnt be tht difficult

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    I set up a D2 with this girl for tomorrow but im actually expecting her to flake. Her friend and my coworker said that she hasnt returned any of her calls or texts lately and that she has been flakey with her. Sounds like she has some personal shit going on.

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    Default Re: Possible Flake - after amazing date

    So I went on a D2 with this girl and had a great time. Once again, lots of Kino and kissing. She was ready to have sex but we both had to be up early the next day. She was practically begging me to hang this weekend so we could F. Now its sat and she's flaking. Here is the thread:
    Me: Let's do something tonight
    Her: I'll see
    Me: You'll see?
    Her: I really sick
    Me: The other night u were practically begging to see me this weekend.
    Her: I know I have a fever of 103.7 and throwing up and can't move
    What do I text her back? I like this girl she is a lot of fun but is a little aggravating. She is great in person and seems to really like me. Giving me compliments, staring in to my eyes, trying to qualify herself, etc. However she is a bit of a brick wall when it comes to texting. She doesn't respond for hours sometimes or no response at all. How do I handle this? Thanks and I love the forum. So much great info.

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    Default Re: Possible Flake - after amazing date

    tell her to get well soon and disappear for a couple days then hit her back up and ask her how she's feeling and then go directly into scheduling a meet up
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    Default Re: Possible Flake - after amazing date

    So I shouldnt just give her a warning shot to let her know flaking on me will not be tolerated? I'm 29 and she's only 21 btw. I haven't been with a 21 year old since college as I'm used to dating older or same age women. She has mentioned before more than once that the guys she's dated have gone soft on her, crying and being overly emotionally needy, etc. So I don't want to appear to be a pussy. I was thinking something like "That sux if ur sick. I hope u feel better. But just so ya know it is going to be harder to get at me next time" or is that too harsh in case she really is sick? Thanks for the feedback I really do appreciate it


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