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    Default Sticky situation with the GF

    I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks and everything was going well. Last night at a party with her got way too drunk. (Rookie mistake, I know). I don't recall doing anything too bad to embarrass her, but she sent me home in a cab while she stayed at the party. (It was her friend's house so she just crashed there). Gave me the cold shoulder all day today...one word answers to my texts, etc.

    How should I play this? I hate to play into her hand by calling her and being overly apologetic.

    I really like this girl but I'm tempted to say fark it if she can't even handle me getting a bit drunk, is that crazy?

    Any advise is appreciated, guys.

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    Default Re: Sticky situation with the GF

    Hey man. We've all been there haha. What I would do in your situation is not talk to her or attempt to get her attention for like 2 weeks, then invite her out with you and your friends, tell her she can meet you there if she wants to cuz you'll already be there. This kind of shows her that you don't mind her presence but at the same time don't NEED it. If she shows up, that's great and it'll be easy to get back in there! If she doesn't show up, you're already out! Might as well pick-up a different one! That's just what I would do. Might not be the best for this specific scenario, not sure really. Any thoughts on that?

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    Default Re: Sticky situation with the GF

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    Hey man. We've all been there haha. What I would do in your situation is not talk to her or attempt to get her attention for like 2 weeks, then invite her out with you and your friends, tell her she can meet you there if she wants to cuz you'll already be there. This kind of shows her that you don't mind her presence but at the same time don't NEED it. If she shows up, that's great and it'll be easy to get back in there! If she doesn't show up, you're already out! Might as well pick-up a different one! That's just what I would do. Might not be the best for this specific scenario, not sure really. Any thoughts on that?
    Good idea in general, I'll definitely keep that play in mind in the future but I hate to kill all our momentum by waiting 2 weeks.

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    Default Re: Sticky situation with the GF

    Well if you're lucky she'll run to you prior to those 2 weeks being up. I put the 2 weeks on it because when people don't see someone for a while it kind of resets their internal thoughts and the emotions attached aren't as dominant and more repressed, so it's kind of like a restart button.


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