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    Default Need Help with Friend's Friend

    Ok. So this is a new situation for me. Saturday night went out with a female friend's bday party. She's a solid 8 and definitely helps dhv (number closed 3 chix). She likes to flirt with me, but I never closed her, and I tolerate her being a tease cuz she's good for my game.

    Later in the evening one of her friends showed up who was cute and we clicked pretty well. I was bouncing all over the bar, and people in the party were splitting up into little groups. Anyway, I was pretty lit by the end of the night and forgot to get her number (plus, I hate asking for numbers when I am drunk, as I don't like the image it portrays...I know, checking drinking is the best idea, but I already closed the other #s and shots kept going around--it was a bday party!).

    Anyway, I wanted to text my friend to ask for her friend's #, but I don't wanna look needy or creepy. We're friends, but not close friends. Is straight up, "Hey ninja (that's my nickname for her), what's so-and-so's #?" good enough?

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    Default Re: Need Help with Friend's Friend

    You: "Hey you know that girl I was talkin to at your b-day party?"

    Ninja: "Yea, so-and-so?" (So-and-so is her new name lol.)

    You: "Yea, she seemed pretty cool, so let me get her number so I can invite her to XYZ."

    Then make XYZ a social event and invite maaaaad peepz. Now, you're not needy and displays the value of putting together XYZ social gathering.

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    Default Re: Need Help with Friend's Friend

    Yeah, this went over like a lead balloon. I probably should have mentioned that I slept with this chick before, but there's been little of that (beyond silly flirting) in a while. So didn't think it was prudent.

    That night, she was there with another dude, so I can't see her being jealous (but she is a chick, so who the F knows what goes on in her head). Anyway, she didn't answer since yesterday. She's a quick texter.

    I haven't been able to formulate a follow-up text that won't make me look like I'm asking what's wrong. Even if I tease her about being jelaous it seems that's needy. Like, why should I care?

    Ideas?

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    Default Re: Need Help with Friend's Friend

    Quote Originally Posted by FPierce View Post
    I haven't been able to formulate a follow-up text that won't make me look like I'm asking what's wrong. Even if I tease her about being jelaous it seems that's needy. Like, why should I care?

    Ideas?
    Well, you could put together a social event for you and your friends and tell them to invite people. If she invites her then maybe the reason is because she actually didn't want to just give out her number, if she doesn't invite her then she MAY be jealous and you'll probably have to;

    A. Give up on trying to get it out of her.

    B. Infiltrate the girl's who your asking circle of friends. Not only might it bring you closer to that girl, but you might end up with a lot more friends, which is never a bad thing.

    C. Use a jealousy neg. Using a jealousy neg would have to be worded properly to not come off as needy, and I'm not quite sure how to word it, maybe one of the more experienced PUAs could give you an example.

    B takes a lot more work than A though haha. I'm sure there are better ideas out there, so just look around. These are the only 2 I can think of though.
    Last edited by The Elitist; 11-06-2012 at 07:15 PM. Reason: There is always a C!

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    Default Re: Need Help with Friend's Friend

    Yeah, I kinda figured that. B could work. I actually did get another one of her friend's #s, haha, but I wasn't all that interested in her--a bit too old, but killer rack. Figured if the night went sour, I'd have that.

    After the text to that one chick fell thru, then I was thinking, "sh1t! if I text the girl whose # I did get, then they'll probably compare notes and be like WTF!?!"

    Dunno why I'm sweatin it. I should be like, eff it. Text them all and roll the dice. But, I do like having that one around for bait!

    Maybe I'll wait a couple of days and text her again. Maybe a jealous neg. Maybe something off topic. Like I said, we're not friend-friends, and I'm not looking to get with her again (well, I wouldn't say no, but it's not on my radar), so I really don't have chit-chatty things to say to her. We're friendly, and sometimes we invite each other to outings, but that's the extent.

    Thanks for takin' the time man.

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    Default Re: Need Help with Friend's Friend

    Hey, no problem man. I know I'm not the most experienced yet, but that's where I hope the mentor's on the site jump in and call me an idiot and tell me why I'm an idiot. I do believe I have a great concept on how all the psychology behind the routines work though.

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    Default Re: Need Help with Friend's Friend

    Hey just wanted to let you know. I tried the jealous neg.

    Me: Ok, if you wanna keep me to yourself...all good

    Her: lol, she's taken

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    Default Re: Need Help with Friend's Friend

    Quote Originally Posted by FPierce View Post
    Hey just wanted to let you know. I tried the jealous neg.

    Me: Ok, if you wanna keep me to yourself...all good

    Her: lol, she's taken
    I texted her back a day later:

    Me: Ummmhmmmm I didn't mention a name lol

    Her: lol I knew

    Do I give up on that one? Or is there a one last try tactic? Honestly, I am not sure cuz there were 2 HB friends of her I was chatting up.

    My idea:
    Me: Damn, you're a ninja and you're psychic! Ok, no S----a. Guess I'm stuck with you :-p

    I figure this is funny, flirty, establishes we are talking about the same friend, and future projects? I mean, I'm not looking to get with her, just add her to my social circle. Any thoughts?
    Last edited by FPierce; 11-10-2012 at 05:27 PM. Reason: hit return accidently


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