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Thread: Cant get her to engage

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    Default Cant get her to engage

    So i've been out with this girl once and she is giving me all the ioi's and her friend says she's really into me. However i just cant get her to engage in a conversation. She will randomly text me something like "good morning" or "hey sexy" but when i try and start something she will respond 1-2 hours later with some vague off topic short response or no response at all. I've tried playful negging and cocky funny and i've taken my time in responding but this is getting frustrating. Especially because we sexted the day after i got her # so i thought she'd be good to go. Any advice on how to move forward with this? Should i just straight up put her on the spot and call her out? Freeze her out? Or just be patient and use text to set up a D2?

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    Default Re: Cant get her to engage

    She probably realized she was moving too fast, ASD kicked in, and she's playing the games all girls play. I would Freeze Out for a couple weeks, actually had the same thing happening to me this last month. Froze out a week ago. She saw me yesterday arrays restaurant she works at with a couple other female friends and she texted me almost as soon as her shift was done. Gonna give it another week and then go see her at work around the time she's getting off so I can build attraction in the ten minute walk To the car and ill leave it at that for a couple days before I call her to set up a date. Thats just what I'm doing. Mightbe a better way to do it, but I'm unaware of it
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    Default Re: Cant get her to engage

    I'd say don't call her out on it. It's a specific type of chick (usually Testers - pandoras box) who change topics randomly and don't know how to carry a conversation. It's not something she can control so calling her out would only function as a strong neg or a disqualifier, but if you're sexting then you've already passed the stage for those.
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    Default Re: Cant get her to engage

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    if you're sexting then you've already passed the stage for those.
    its very important that you realize that so i thought id reiterate it. Thats what I was trying to get across, luckily autismus is better at explaining this than I am.

    Although calling a girl out on things like this may seem alpha, it isn't the right move in your case being that your this far in.
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    Default Re: Cant get her to engage

    Yeah i figured calling her out would be a bad idea. So what should i text her at this point? Id prefer to steer the conversation sexual.

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    Default Re: Cant get her to engage

    I would Freeze Out. I don't know what you could use to start a flowing convesation, thats autismus's department. Like I said, I feel that in these situations not saying anyting is adequate enough to get her trying, putting the ball in your court
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