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Thread: Im a complete coward that doesnt know what to do.

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    Default Im a complete coward that doesnt know what to do.

    Hi, I am a 21 year old. There is this girl that I have known for almost as long as i can remember. She lives 2 houses down the street and is 2 years younger than me and went to the same school and now university as me. When I was 8 she was my "girlfriend" if that means anything at that age. we always played together and kissed and had fake weddings and stuff like that, For some reason that I cant remember we drifted apart after that and since then I have been totally useless around girls I like. I just cant do anything.

    Then about a month ago I was browsing a book store and noticed that she was there too and suddenly felt a desire to see if I can try and see if this can go anywhere. Being a total coward I pretended to not have seen her and when I got home I looked her up on facebook and added her. She accepted and since then we have been regularly talking about random stuff on facebook chat. I just don't know what to do next.

    Here is an example of one of our conversations:

    Monday
    20:31
    ME

    Is your power off too?

    20:32
    HER

    yeah and I'm in the middle of exam revision! sucks

    20:33
    ME

    I NEED POWER FOR MY ESSAY DUE TOMORROW!

    20:33
    HER

    shit!

    20:34
    ME

    I might have to go into uni early and finish it off

    20:38
    HER

    gotta love that

    20:50
    ME

    Candles, candles everywhere.

    21:11
    HER

    it's kind if spooky

    21:15
    ME

    Reading by candlelight in the library. Welcome to the 18th century.

    21:16
    HER

    do you feel special

    21:19
    ME

    now its not special anymore (NOTE: THE POWER HAD JUST COME BACK ON AND SINCE SHE LIVES 2 HOUSES AWAY I ASSUMED HERS HAD TOO)

    21:20
    HER


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    Default Re: Im a complete coward that doesnt know what to do.

    you are pretty good with texting, i dont know why i cant converse this freely ==(...could have to do with that u know her really well

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    Default Re: Im a complete coward that doesnt know what to do.

    My suggestion would be to bring up the fun times you used to have together. Seems like there was a strong connection between you two before she drifted. Also you need to tell yourself to not be afraid. It's not as if she's a total stranger.

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    Default Re: Im a complete coward that doesnt know what to do.

    You came to this site for help- seems like you have some idea.

    You openly admitted you have an issue for 100,000 people to see - seems like a brave thing to me with how many people in society that are not even willing to speak up.

    Man, that's what inner game is. View you how I do and less like you do
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Im a complete coward that doesnt know what to do.

    Thanks for your replies. I may try to talk about the fun we had as little kids.

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    Default Re: Im a complete coward that doesnt know what to do.

    I may try to talk about the fun we had as little kids.

    Personally, I wouldn't go there if I were you. That's a rapport step and you obviously already have rapport. Well, it doesn't HAVE to be a rapport step...but we're going to keep things simple here. What do you two have in common? Are you smart? Is she smart? How smart? Is she smarter than you? Are you tech savvy? Is she tech dumb? Indirect is going to be your ideal avenue so we need to find you an in; an opportunity to hang out in a way she doesn't suspect you to be building attraction.

    And you're not a coward. You're the f*cking man. Believe it.
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    Default Re: Im a complete coward that doesnt know what to do.

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post

    And you're not a coward. You're the f*cking man. Believe it.
    That is the Mindset you need to adopt of you hope to have succeeds with any woman you ever meet anywhere.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Im a complete coward that doesnt know what to do.

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post

    And you're not a coward. You're the f*cking man. Believe it.
    Dam straight you are!

    Quote Originally Posted by darkblue_eyes View Post
    My suggestion would be to bring up the fun times you used to have together. Seems like there was a strong connection between you two before she drifted. Also you need to tell yourself to not be afraid. It's not as if she's a total stranger.
    I wanna second what Cody said. If you bring up a connection that you used to have early then it will just be old news and create the impression that there isn't anything new going on in your life. Instead keep the fb-ing fun and stimulating (throw in more multi-threads and flirty non-sense stuff too) and then go for a meetup.
    After you guys have a vibe going (and A LOT of attraction) based on the present, then definitely mention the 'good ol days' just in an offhand kinda and you'll probably be able to bounce her back to your place "to see that root-beer float-style drink you were telling her about " ...

    (Just plop some icecream into a glass of cyder)

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