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    Dtro is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Advice on Where to go With HB9

    So I'm new to this community and all that and have been using POF a bit to try some sh1t out. I got approached the other day by a sexy hockey girl and am just looking for some advice on where to take the convo from where it's left off.


    Her: It too bad your an oilers fan and don't like house techno music or country because I personally really like your office pics... Your sure a cutie


    Me: Uh oh, I'm guessing you're a Flames fan? I'd say I feel bad for you, but if we even do get a season, I'm thinking the oil's gonna go for a fourth straight first overall. What position do you play? Btw, my name's Devin.
    (sports banter,she's got a masters in effin sports business, too)


    Her: Fourth straight first over all in last place yah! LOL nice try bud lol.. Some day some day... I'm center and right wing.. How bout you?! Hi devin lol I'm lisa although I shouldn't b talking to you


    Me: I can dream. I played right wing for like 7 years when I was younger and for the odd beer league after that. I know right... You'd be blasting country music all day and I'd be bragging about how the oilers are so great. How would it ever work out between us?


    Her: Hahah I'm really not sure... It's to bad really that our differences can't come together some how and work out


    Me: I suppose we could just compromise a little bit. As long as you don't go crazy with your Garth Brooks while I'm watching the game, I might be ok with it. My dad loves country so I did grow up hearing it a lot, after all.


    Her: Lol I'd b watching my own game tho. We'd need to b in a place with multiple screens for both of us to b satisfied hahaha and naw I'd rather blast the tiesto then the Garth but that's only in the car lol.. What do u get up to here in calgs?


    Me: True, true. We'd have to only go to places like Flames Central with tons of tv's and get rowdy drunk, lol. And I can handle some Tiesto blasting in the car, I love all sorts of electronic music. Work, hang out with the fam and friends, hibernate... Winter mode. What about yourself?


    Her: Haha fair enough!! As long as you don't wear your oilers jersey there lol... And sounds good lol.. Hockey, workouts, partying, working, moving into a new house with hockey friends and trying to live the dream lol :-)


    I'm wondering if I should build a bit more rapport or just go for some sort of Number Close or what. Any advice/critique is appreciated.
    Last edited by Dtro; 11-08-2012 at 01:50 PM. Reason: FORMATTING

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    Default Re: Advice on Where to go With HB9

    You're doing fine with the rapport.... just don't get stuck in rapport. (= friend zone)

    I'd recommend being more flirty now. (Although you've actually been doing pretty good with the bantering in the message exchanges.)

    But keep flirting A little more before you go for the number. Make sure you build up the attraction enough to reduce resistance / hesitation about her giving you the digits.

    But overall, I think the exchange has been pretty solid!


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    Default Re: Advice on Where to go With HB9

    You met her on POF? Maybe you can share portions of your profile for the rest of us.

    ANyway, they say no more than three emails from you before you get the number. You could say something like "it's cool emailing you but I get bored with this easily so let's talk on the phone." Do not give her your number without getting hers first. You could say let's exchange numbers but don't I repeat do not give her yours first. I say that based on an experience I had where things were going good with email exchanges until I said let's exchange numbers. Mine is ******. She replied back saying she would give me a call but never did. I learned from that mistake and learning from your mistakes is key to future success.

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    Default Re: Advice on Where to go With HB9

    a little more flirting would be appreciated.. make sure you don't fall into friends zone with her!! keep going!! you are on the right track! lol

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    Default Re: Advice on Where to go With HB9

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystik View Post

    ANyway, they say no more than three emails from you before you get the number.

    Have to disagree there. Every girl is different, you just have to sense when you have built the attraction then act in that finite window before you lose attraction or the conversation gets stale!

    Wait for a number of ioi's, is she asking questions, does she say things like "you're funny" or "haha". Its hard to explain but after a while you will just get a sense as to when you should Number Close.

    Some girls I number close on a first message others take 10, one even took 20 messages. It all depends on the tone of the conversation and of course the length of the message and whether your having to break down a defense from the offset... I call this starting on the back foot lol.

    Use T-mal's number close... This month I've had 100% number close success and I have 12 new numbers to have fun with


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