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Thread: Where to start with online dating? (Pakistan)

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    Default Where to start with online dating? (Pakistan)

    Well i prefer online dating i have a couple of questions .
    Which free dating site should i use ?
    Which qualities should i develope ?
    My hobbies are typical music movies food not interesting enough,
    How to hold a conversation ?
    How to build rapport ?
    Which is the best program out there ?

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    Default Re: Where to start ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Nine tails View Post
    Well i prefer online dating i have a couple of questions .
    Which free dating site should i use ?
    Which qualities should i develope ?
    My hobbies are typical music movies food not interesting enough,
    How to hold a conversation ?
    How to build rappot ?
    Which is the best program out there ?
    - Use all of the free online dating sites, and paid ones too if you can afford it.
    - concentrate on virtues more than hobbies, say you are a smart, handsome, positive man who is passionate, adventurous, caring and fun.
    - Hold a conversation by being interesting. You dont have to be a pro surfer or billionaire you just need to be able to talk about ordinary things in interesting ways. Talk about a fun time you had with a friend, a great adventure you had, philosophy, dreams, ambitions, role playing. If you dont actually lead a flamboyant life than make up flamboyant stories and creative scenarios. e.g. 'Its a full moon tonight - I'll need to protect you from vampires and werewolves' or 'look at us two here in this cafe on a sunny afternoon overlooking to ocean - we're like two movies stars on the greatest set'. Ask girls a few questions that make them do the talking and then you dont have to say much at all.
    - Build rapport by gaining trust through good conversation. You dont have to win, you just have to not loose. Refrain from saying anything stupid. Watch her body language. Is she copying your frame? Make her laugh. If she is asking questions about you and is genuinely interested you have gained rapport.
    - The best program is real life experience. You get out and talk to women real time and learn from your mistakes. Thats what every book will ultimately come down to - talking to women. Lots of them.
    - Be confident and show no fear. Its just a girl, its not a great white shark.

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    Default Re: Where to start ?

    Good coversation so are you saying i should agree with her or sometimes give my own opinion ?

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    Default Re: Where to start ?

    Ahh.. you do have your own opinions, right? Use them, but be prepared to back yourself. Don't be disagreeable however, you have to agree with everything she says. Staying true to yourself and making up your own mind are both alpha traits- She will respect you for it.
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    Default Re: Where to start ?

    So what about humour ?
    I heard its a vital element but i am not funny how can i manage it .

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    Default Re: Where to start with online dating? (Pakistan)

    Quote Originally Posted by Nine tails View Post
    Good coversation so are you saying i should agree with her or sometimes give my own opinion ?
    Good conversation means that it is intellectually/emotionally/physically stimulating; it has nothing to do with agreeing or disagreeing. Just talk to her like a real person and agree or disagree as you honestly feel, but the most important thing is to keep the conversation stimulating.

    Quote Originally Posted by Nine tails View Post
    So what about humour ?
    I heard its a vital element but i am not funny how can i manage it .
    Watch some comedy shows or movies and calibrate to comedy.
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