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    Default Hb7 keeps playing games, need help!

    So I've been texting this HB7 that I met at the club back and forth for about 3 weeks now. At first the interactions were strong, alot of flirting back and forth but for some reason now, she ignores my texts after I say something that is supposed to flip her attraction switches thru text. I found out she had a BF so I made sure I ran a solid BF Destroyer Technique and got that outta the way. And she spoke negative about him and when I saw her again at the club with her BF, she wouldn't stop texting me

    These past few weeks I've been trying to escalate things with her so things wouldn't fade out by turning things a bit sexual and whenever I did that, I've noticed that she either calls me a "naughty boy" or simply ignores the text and might not respond for a couple of days. I've invited her out before but she says she would be worried if her BF would find but to me it seemed like she wanted to come. I personally think this girl is a flaker because she would tell me we'll hangout one of these days.

    What I do alot is freeze her out for 3 days or say but whenever I do that, she ends up texting me first and sends me faces like these or. I'm really getting mind farked so I'm looking to all the masters here to please provide some insight to what I should do. Should I be persistent as I could be the first guy she would cheat on her BF with or should her number get deleted because I really dont like to waste my time with women.

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    Default Re: Hb7 keeps playing games, need help!

    She sounds like a bit of a Playette...

    So it's possible she's keeping you close enough to keep YOUR interest in her, so that if &/or when she dumps her BF, she can give you a shout.

    That's my initial impression anyway.


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    Default Re: Hb7 keeps playing games, need help!

    girls do this sort of thing all the time, they will often keep "orbiters" or guys who they use for validation. you are just feeding her ego! you need to freeze her out to gauge how attracted she is to you. if she's interested in you she will probably text within 3 days, if she's not that into you she'll text within 7 days, and if she doesn't like you, she just won't text you. i personaly think that she is just using you to feed her ego (you make her feel attractive by flirting with her) girls often validate themselves by how many guys they keep as "orbitors". unfortunanately the bf destroyer doesn't ensure that she will leave him. the longer she has been with him the less likely she will leave him, simply because she like all people, fears life changes.

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    Default Re: Hb7 keeps playing games, need help!

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    girls do this sort of thing all the time, they will often keep "orbiters" or guys who they use for validation. you are just feeding her ego! you need to freeze her out to gauge how attracted she is to you. if she's interested in you she will probably text within 3 days, if she's not that into you she'll text within 7 days, and if she doesn't like you, she just won't text you. i personaly think that she is just using you to feed her ego (you make her feel attractive by flirting with her) girls often validate themselves by how many guys they keep as "orbitors". unfortunanately the bf destroyer doesn't ensure that she will leave him. the longer she has been with him the less likely she will leave him, simply because she like all people, fears life changes.

    Thanks for the quick reply, so should I just cut her off completely??? I not one to feed girls ego's especially if I'm not getting something out of it

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    Default Re: Hb7 keeps playing games, need help!

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    She sounds like a bit of a Playette...

    So it's possible she's keeping you close enough to keep YOUR interest in her, so that if &/or when she dumps her BF, she can give you a shout.

    That's my initial impression anyway.
    Thanks T-Mal, fyi: thanks for helping me improve my text game with your posts!! So If this was your situation, what would you do if you were me??

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    Default Re: Hb7 keeps playing games, need help!

    It depends...
    You could always keep her on the back-burner & make her YOUR orbiter.

    Plus, it's helpful to have a few flirty girls like that in your contact list. You can boost your experience by trying new ideas with texts & flirting ....


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    Default Re: Hb7 keeps playing games, need help!

    I think Meteora and T-Mal are both right, I think she's using you for validation/a backup plan. Now I'm a "just for sh1ts" kinda guy, so if it was me I'd cut her off, but before doing so send her some kind of ultimatum (but in a friendly way) like "okay, friendship test! Im going out with some friends to celebrate a promotion tonight and you gotta come or else yo @$$ is getting axed from my phone "

    And if she flales delete her and be like "who's this?" next time she texts you.

    Either that or call her on her sh1t for having validation orbiters / plan B's... probly would be more emotionally rough for her tho
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    Default Re: Hb7 keeps playing games, need help!

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    It depends...
    You could always keep her on the back-burner & make her YOUR orbiter.

    Plus, it's helpful to have a few flirty girls like that in your contact list. You can boost your experience by trying new ideas with texts & flirting ....
    Oh snap I chamged my mind, do that ^ one! target practice bro, target practice!
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    Default Re: Hb7 keeps playing games, need help!

    You guys are awesome! I'm going to be inflating the contacts list with HB's this weekend!!!

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    Default Re: Hb7 keeps playing games, need help!

    i have to agree with these guys, if she's going to use you for validation, then you should be more than welcome to use her for "target practice" with your game (not your gun no pun intended) gain as much social experience with her as possible before cutting her loose


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