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    Default The art of texting women

    Texting is an art form and who better to learn from then the best in the world right?

    Yes women are the best at texting in the world because what's the first thing they do best? they don't usually over invest and that's the huge mistake guys make sending long text messages that come across needy and trying to hard which then turns the women off.

    I always text something simple that does not require a response but at the same time leaves the girl thinking? hmm is this guy interested in me or what?

    1st text I send


    Hi Anna, it was nice meeting you today I enjoyed the conversation we had.

    Johnny


    Now most guys will say what that's shit!!! no jokes very boring well that's what I thought until it became my best first message and 95% got a text back..

    This message is not trying to hard all it's saying is I enjoyed the moment we had.. and almost closing the book.. psychologically very effective the girl will now wanna get your attention right...

    The second text I send is a text that proposes meeting up together but it's worded very clever not over investing..

    I was thinking of inviting you out for a quick drink sound good?

    this message is great as it's straight to the point and very easy going... like the low sales hit ..

    most girls if your conversation went well enough will say sounds good

    you then text back cool... how does 8pm sound outside covent garden station suit you?

    again nice and straight forward she has to make that chocie and your not needy pretty easy going text right...

    she will say ok see you there... or if she cant make it she will say i'm busy that day... but free on tuesday?

    you can then say I have an hour tuesday sounds good..

    you see it's not just the message it's the philosophy behind them and women respond very well to non-needyness

    try it for your self.. you can play around with the words but keep it simple and don't over invest in your texting.....

    remember the more you invest early on the less you get back..

    simplicity is key..

    Johnny Berba pua

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    Default Re: The art of texting women

    I dont want to critique but T-Mal text bible seems more concrete than what you have drafted.

    I was thinking of inviting you out for a quick drink sound good?

    - You said 'I was thinking'. That shows that you are not confident enough and not decisive enough.


    how does 8pm sound outside covent garden station suit you?

    - You said 'how does 8pm', that is bad because you are asking her if she thinks thats good to meet at 8, you need to tell her that you guys are meeting at 7:30pm.


    you can then say I have an hour tuesday sounds good..

    - Thats a minor flake if she changes dates on you or busy. You dont break time in your schedule for her. You tell her you will get back in touch with her when you have an available time in your schedule. That shows her that your time is precious and she lost out on meeting you. That shows her that you are confident, your time is valuable, you havent invested in her, she needs to make time for you, and that you have a life.


    don't over invest in your texting.

    - Dont invest period in your text. You text to setup dates as Cody said or as T-Mack says you showcase your inner-person which is a fun-loving type dude. No investing period.
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    Default Re: The art of texting women

    While i appreciate posters contributing, i feel its a little arrogant to post a 'guide' to something when you barely have any posts or rep.

    Especially since, as TG said, there are plenty of awesome guides here already.

    Oh and asking a girl out nicely will work plenty of times ... but that doesnt mean u are an alpha ... it means u are an AFC (not saying u are, just saying in general).
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    Default Re: The art of texting women

    there are advantages to being strait forward/direct with your texts (like your guide says) if you are just using it to set up the date, but i personaly prefer to be more flirty with my texts and even use NLP and push/pull in my texts. but everyone has their own style, if this fits your style then stick with it. but in my opinion it is dumb not to take advantage of texting as a way to create additional attraction. this guide will only work if you have created ample attraction in the first convorsation with her.

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    Default Re: The art of texting women

    I Agree, texting a women is kind of a little simple process

    some tips

    1) keep short, simple and fun, its so important to be fun and original texting, women loves that

    2) never talk about be boring, work or something else that is boring

    3) dont answer all her questions, keep the mystery

    4) dont reply instantly, take ur time, that will show women that ur not needy or desperate, also that ura busy guy, your time is valuable and she will love that.

    5) try to keep the last message a respond of her, so you have the power to answer the message at the time you want, keep control

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    Default Re: The art of texting women

    I guess it's a matter of opinion and it works for me and tons of guys I have taught. No matter what someone will always say that's not the right way to do it.

    I think if it works then thats all there is to it.. I have never been into texting back and forth I relie on the interaction ....the text is secondary if the girl likes you she will respond and go out with you..

    It's all about communication....

    guys go to direct and that does not mean your alpha that's to vague it's all about your personality not the routine you use or lines...
    ..
    being alpha is so many different factors... it's demonstrating you can take care of a women in every sense... an alpha male can be soft and show his sensitive side as well as be strong... the pua community is like a fanatsy marketing... on how to act one way....


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