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    soundmouse is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Red face Is there life after girlfriend?

    tl;dr:
    Got a girlfriend. Now what?

    So this past year, I've learned countless of things from this community. I thank you guys. With these skills I managed to pick up my confidence, grab the attention of different people, and be the life of the party. But with these skills also came the death of a pua... a girlfriend.

    Yup, these past two months I've been dating a gorgeous hot...well, nerd. I don't mean that in a bad way. She is beautiful and very cute. But she's also very involved in her studies and is basically the perfect student, which is a real turn on. This girl makes me happy. But the thought that I'm losing my status as the cool single guy kinda bums me out.

    Now that I've reached the goal of having a beautiful girlfriend... should that mean I throw in the towel and delete this site off of my bookmarks?
    I honestly don't want to be a player and hurt this girl. I want to see the way things go with her and get deeper in our relationship...but does that mean its time to throw away my mojo? Help me out guys. Is there life after girlfriend?

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    Default Re: Is there life after girlfriend?

    Congrats my friend!


    I actually went one step further than a girlfriend.... "Fiancee"

    But, I continue learning more & more from the PUA community & still keep gaming her every day.
    It keeps the relationship fresh, fun & exciting!!

    So just because you hit your personal jackpot, doesn't mean you should forget everything you know. In fact, the OPPOSITE is true.

    Keep learning & use your knowledge to improve & strengthen your relationship.

    For me, the only thing that's changed is, I'm not out picking up girls.

    So, keep working on your mojo & make it more powerful.


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    soundmouse is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Is there life after girlfriend?

    What kinda things have you learned to use on a girl you already have? I'd like to make this relationship the best she's ever had so your advice would be awesome!
    Thanks for the quick response.

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    Default Re: Is there life after girlfriend?

    Don't get locked into the idea that just because you're in a relationship that your life is over. Keep being an alpha male and don't ever get too comfortable. Remember, it's easy as hell to get another girl but keeping the one that you're with in love in you is ultimate game.
    “The great mistake is to anticipate the outcome of the engagement; you ought not to be thinking of whether it ends in victory or defeat. Let nature take its course, and your tools will strike at the right moment.” -Bruce Lee

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    Default Re: Is there life after girlfriend?

    I kinda treat every day like it's the first time I met her...so constant flirting for sure!!

    That continues to build attraction (even through it's already there) and working on deeper rapport / comfort.

    The things that helped you GET the girl can help you KEEP the girl.

    When you're at the point where it's a relationship, you can totally compliment her on her looks & let her know you think she's hot.
    (As well as doing other little things to make her feel appreciated.)

    But when guys stop doing the things that originally attracted the girl in the first place, the girl will begin to lose the interest she once had.

    Looking back at all my past relationships, I can see where I did that.... which contributes to why a lot of them are Exes.

    LOL!!


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    Default Re: Is there life after girlfriend?

    I agree with what everyone mentioned. When I was in a relationship, I continued to work on myself at the same time work on the relationship. The key is to find a balance. Big mistake to make would be to put too much focus into the relationship and not give yourself time to develop and grow. On the flip side, focusing on yourself too much would damage the relationship. Make sense? You can still be the same guy, just with an awesome girl on your side. NOTHING wrong with that bro. If anything, she's a big confidence booster and validation to your inner game. If things don't work out between you two, you can always look back and say, I can get a girl of quality if not better.


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