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    Cool Cute classmate On online dating site

    Hello, I'm an outgoing guy, attending college not bad looking at all. Reason for this thread is because I met this cute girl in my business class. She's probably a HB6 or HB7. In class, she seems very ongoing and sweet. Eventually, she introduced herself to me and since, I've sat by her a couple of times. Also, I've wrote notes to her during class, complementing about her hair and I've asked her about her weekends. So far, I've build some rapport with her and made her smile a few times. A little flirting here and there, the vibe is good. I haven't made a move yet because I wasn't sure if she had a boyfriend, but tonight I was on a online dating site and I saw her online and checked her profile...I'm not sure if I should open(Any good openers)? Do you guys think this would make her feel uncomfortable? Please help

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    Default Re: Cute classmate On online dating site

    Hey Martian, As a first time poster you may decide to take my post with a grain of salt.. however since I read the game 5 years ago my social life has changed immensely. I don't know alot of the techniques used by puas but I have found that acting as a teasing and benevolant alpha male gets me very far.

    If I were you I'd send a message like "Hey, I was just thinking about you and wondering if you were single :P What are you doing on Friday, I'd like to take you out.

    The merits of a message like this are that you assume she will say yes but not in a cocky way. It's smooth and natural, and bespeaks the attitude of "of course she is gonna say yes so there is no need to ask if she would like to" but not in a cocky way.

    Just my two cents, as I said Im a first time poster here so you may want to wait for a more experienced poster.

    Edit: Also, if you think its likely she will know it's you I wouldn't introduce yourself "hey its will from math class", that's not alpha, you don't need an introduction you're will from math class... everyone knows will from math class cause he's so damned cool.
    Last edited by loota; 11-10-2012 at 12:43 PM. Reason: Added more.

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    Default Re: Cute classmate On online dating site

    Hey OP

    Not a pro here, but I personally would Not send her a message on the online dating site. Instead I would take it as a sign that she is in fact single.

    I would use it as information instead of a form of communication, you both talk plenty in class and if you message her on a dating site it could reveal desperateness or creepiness.

    Instead, you know she is single and ready to mingle escalate in class. Get her number and start fun and flirty conversations. If she was not the slightest bit interested she would ignore your notes and shrug off your convos.

    Cheers!

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    Default Re: Cute classmate On online dating site

    i totally agree with FreshBread!!! You should try to take it to next level in the real world. not in the online world.. or you might want to play the "You've Got Mail" in both online and offline.. well, for that you'll have to be as charming as Tom Hanks

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    Default Re: Cute classmate On online dating site

    Ummm no. Don't use it as information, when she doesn't know you saw her profile. That s called stalking. Even if you don't wanna call it that, thats extremely creepy.
    If she's on a dating profile, she's looking for a relationship. Thats all the info you need to take and use.
    Now, if it were me, I would message her on it. Its going to come up anyways, and if you use the info off her page the whole conversation is going to feel artificial for both of you. So again, I would message her on it. Your using the swing site too so she wont feel that uncomfortable because your both on the same level. So I would message her with "hey I know you and now I'm taking you out Friday."

    You don't have to say that, but thats my style so thats what I would say
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever


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