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Thread: Really Long Response Times...

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    Default Really Long Response Times...

    Hey guys...quick question...

    I've recently started talking to this girl who I've known for a little while via text, but that's not the point - the point is, whenever I text her, it takes her forever to text back (I'm talking between 5 hours and 2 days)...and sometimes she doesn't text back at all.

    I talked to her about it today in person and she said she's just busy...is this an IOD or what?

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    Default Re: Really Long Response Times...

    you are pretty much not on her priority list you need to get on there
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    Default Re: Really Long Response Times...

    Definetly an IOD.
    sounds like she is putting you slowly in the friend zone .
    You still have hope though... Uhm I could only think of two options right now. Either you keep on texting her & make your conversations more exciting, more fun & playful, make them lead into interesting topics for both of you. basically Make her WANT to reply to you. OR , You could begin distancing yourself from her I mean you said you recently started talking to her & known her for a "little while" right? so this should work good if you decide to go this path ... slowly text her less, talk to her less ... & after a little while you start talking to her again & this lets you start off fresh in her mind again & slowly start integrating those attraction switches on her again & voila! (Note: this is a little risky in your case, because another man could step in your set, totally blow you off & take her, so do it at your own risk)

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    Default Re: Really Long Response Times...

    Don't text her for a couple weeks. N when you do text back be completely outcome independent and troll her. Thats right troll the fuck out of her. I've gotten many dates by doing this. Its completely alpha, use meme pictures in your text, use * to indicate things like *brushes away tear*. It shows value and sets you appart from other losers. Oh n variate the amount of time it takes you to text back. One time a minute or sometimes even take a full day, this will make you unpredictable and a challenge.
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    Default Re: Really Long Response Times...

    Topgunnit is right about not being a priority. I think a good way to become her priority is establish yourself as a challenge. Remember, you are the prize she's trying to win over.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Really Long Response Times...

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Topgunnit is right about not being a priority. I think a good way to become her priority is establish yourself as a challenge. Remember, you are the prize she's trying to win over.
    Awesome...any tips as to how to go about accomplishing this?

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    Quote Originally Posted by theman1099 View Post
    Awesome...any tips as to how to go about accomplishing this?
    How to accomplish becoming her "priority"?
    Well this is when your attraction game comes into play. & since you haven't known her for a long time like you said, this should still work to make you her top priority. You must turn on her attraction switches, and after that build comfort... how you ask? Well Here are some attraction switches on all women:
    -Social Proof (one of the biggest ones)
    -Pre Selected by women
    -Leader of men
    -Protector of loves ones
    -successful risk taker
    -Good Humor
    - Ability to Emote(the ability to emote is the capacity to talk about your feelings, to show that you are physically & emotionally healthy.)
    these are all I could think of ... now the way to convey these characteristics to her are mostly in dhv stories, Or Body Language
    Let us know how it goes with her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ajkid View Post
    How to accomplish becoming her "priority"?
    Well this is when your attraction game comes into play. & since you haven't known her for a long time like you said, this should still work to make you her top priority. You must turn on her attraction switches, and after that build comfort... how you ask? Well Here are some attraction switches on all women:
    -Social Proof (one of the biggest ones)
    -Pre Selected by women
    -Leader of men
    -Protector of loves ones
    -successful risk taker
    -Good Humor
    - Ability to Emote(the ability to emote is the capacity to talk about your feelings, to show that you are physically & emotionally healthy.)
    these are all I could think of ... now the way to convey these characteristics to her are mostly in dhv stories, Or Body Language
    Let us know how it goes with her.
    Will do...so far you guys have been nothing but helpful - really appreciate that!


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