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Thread: New Way To Respond To sh1t Tests

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    Default New Way To Respond To sh1t Tests

    OK so be advised, I do not know how well this works or even if it works at all. I had an idea though. I was talking to a woman and we were going back and forth a little and she sh1t-tested me pretty quickly. I tried to use a canned question opener on her and she didn't answer so I chided her inability to follow directions and she said "Following directions isn't really my thing, I try to mix things up so the real question is can you keep up with me??" I knew I shouldn't qualify myself to her but how should I respond and then it hit me...I was B-Rabbit. I had to turn this around on her to my advantage so I said "Does that attitude scare a lot of guys off? I feel like I'm the first one to see through it to your giving heart."

    So, what I need from you is to test it. Experiment with flipping around what moody girls say and tell we how it works out. I know in real life it's a turn on but is it too harsh online? I don't know. Give it a shot and report back here and we may just have a new response to sh1t tests.
    Last edited by urbancowboy; 11-11-2012 at 05:55 PM. Reason: Bold text at the bottom.

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    Default Re: New Way To Respond To sh1t Tests

    with a smile on the end i reckon it would (y) if i get sh1t tested i'll use it

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    Default Re: New Way To Respond To sh1t Tests

    Quote Originally Posted by urbancowboy View Post
    "Does that attitude scare a lot of guys off? I feel like I'm the first one to see through it to your giving heart."
    Nice. Gonna try this. I'm inclined to start off light and joking, then let it slack to deep and penetrating, then snap it back to sarcasm
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    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    Nice. Gonna try this. I'm inclined to start off light and joking, then let it slack to deep and penetrating, then snap it back to sarcasm
    She actually ended up just going on and on testing my frame until I finally broke her down. We exchanged names and I told her I had to run but we should grab a drink sometime. She said "Sure" and I told her to text me her name with a picture so I would know it was her, which is advice I read in anothel guide somewhere on online dating. Here's to hoping.

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    Default Re: New Way To Respond To sh1t Tests

    I'm attempting this! I'm knew to online dating but running with your idea. So far this is what I got lol but I'll tell you guys how it ended up.

    (Enter super sarcastic profile)

    Me: Your sarcasm is beyond belief. I usually skim through profiles but the amount of sarcasm in your profile is hard to ignore. Do you tear apart people who message you just for the hell of it? lol

    Her: On occasion! Worried? (What is this called, trying to make me qualify myself? That's a big no no right?)

    She dresses colourfully, so I figure I can reference back to this later:

    Me: Did you know that you're about as threatening as a Skittle. I feel like I'm the first one to see through that hard candy exterior, to your giving heart.

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    It's funny that I came across this because I was totally going to say something similar, but you worded it best.

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    Default Re: New Way To Respond To sh1t Tests

    Quote Originally Posted by urbancowboy View Post
    OK so be advised, I do not know how well this works or even if it works at all. I had an idea though. I was talking to a woman and we were going back and forth a little and she sh1t-tested me pretty quickly. I tried to use a canned question opener on her and she didn't answer so I chided her inability to follow directions and she said "Following directions isn't really my thing, I try to mix things up so the real question is can you keep up with me??" I knew I shouldn't qualify myself to her but how should I respond and then it hit me...I was B-Rabbit. I had to turn this around on her to my advantage so I said "Does that attitude scare a lot of guys off? I feel like I'm the first one to see through it to your giving heart."

    So, what I need from you is to test it. Experiment with flipping around what moody girls say and tell we how it works out. I know in real life it's a turn on but is it too harsh online? I don't know. Give it a shot and report back here and we may just have a new response to sh1t tests.


    If she said to me "the real question is can you keep up with me?" I would have said something like "probably not. I like to take things slow. Real slow(and say this slowly).Only little kids need to do everything fast." So then she would have to prove to you that she's not like a little kid.

    Your response was good too but you might be overthinking it a bit too much. You want her to respond on an emotional level as much as possible. The more she has to think the less effective it will be imo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mystik View Post
    If she said to me "the real question is can you keep up with me?" I would have said something like "probably not. I like to take things slow. Real slow(and say this slowly).Only little kids need to do everything fast." So then she would have to prove to you that she's not like a little kid.

    Your response was good too but you might be overthinking it a bit too much. You want her to respond on an emotional level as much as possible. The more she has to think the less effective it will be imo.
    I'll take that into consideration. Any more success with this, guys?

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    Default Re: New Way To Respond To sh1t Tests

    Well it sounded like a Sh1t Test and from what I understand based on what I've read is that the way to pass these tests is to not give her the answer she expects(or even wants in some cases). She is expecting you to be the nice guy(like most of the other guys out there)and follow her frame. The trick is to go against that and be a bit of a bad boy and not take her questions so seriously. What I did here was reframe it so that I'm not giving her what she expects. If I said "yeah I can keep up with you" then I would be playing her game and following her frame rather than going against it. You need to rebel against it when possible because it shows you are not just doing what she wants or expects and you have your own mind. That's what "bad boys" do. Bad just means you think independently in this case and are playful. Nobody should be an actual jerk.


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