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    Default Re: Girl in Foul Mood. Extreme sh1t Tests or done goofed? Need Help NOW

    Autismus? What would you suggest?

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    Default Re: Girl in Foul Mood. Extreme sh1t Tests or done goofed? Need Help NOW

    Good. She's opening up. Now give her your ear. Don't try to convince her that what she feels is wrong.

    If you've ever seen Two and a Half Men, the character Charlie Harper is being vented to by his brothers ex-wife Judith. The only thing he says to her is "I understand" when he's not even listening. She's so happy that someone is "listening" to her, she makes Charlie her best friend to his unfortunate luck. It's a priceless episode lol. So basically that's all you have to say.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Girl in Foul Mood. Extreme sh1t Tests or done goofed? Need Help NOW

    Thanks batman. I see her tomorrow in person in class so I'll wait and see if she's willing to open up a little bit in person.


    She's insulting me to the point of being very disrespectful so I have to tread a fine line between understanding and taking sh#@.

    She called me a conceited ass$hole last time so don't know how much agreeing with her I can do...

    I already told her I want to talk and If she won't meet with me after class tomorrow then I think the ball is in her court....

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    Default Re: Girl in Foul Mood. Extreme sh1t Tests or done goofed? Need Help NOW

    There's nothing wrong with telling her that if she's wants you to listen then she should choose her words better. If she gets defensive then let her know that you'll talk to her later.

    Always state your standards and expectations without trying to control the outcome. Have in your mind that you have a fun reality and only worthy people get to be in your circle. Don't verbalize this. Let your actions show this mentality.
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    Default Re: Girl in Foul Mood. Extreme sh1t Tests or done goofed? Need Help NOW

    What makes this one tricky is she may think I'm cheating on her. A friend of her's is interested in me and that friend has been spreading rumors about me being a player. Also there's a guy whose into her who has also been saying that I'm with a bunch of women.

    Before I met her I always made an effort to make myself seen with lots of women. It appears this may have backfired. What first pissed her off was me mentioning that other women were talking about me wanting to sleep with me... Since then she's seen me driving with and going to dinner with a female friend several times.

    This could have nothing to do with it or be the root of the problem. Problem is she won't even talk with me without being defensive. She still saved me a seat yesterday despite being very very standoffish....

    Problem is I can't tell whether she's lost interest, This is a test, or she legit think's that I'm cheating on her.

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    Default Re: Girl in Foul Mood. Extreme sh1t Tests or done goofed? Need Help NOW

    If she's lost interest: then next time you get a chamce to have a semi-deep talk with her, do so
    If she thinks you're cheating: then next time you get a chance to have a semi-deep talk with her, do so
    If it's a test tovsee if you pickup in/care about her emotions: then next time you get a chance to have a semi-deep... you get the idea
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    Default Re: Girl in Foul Mood. Extreme sh1t Tests or done goofed? Need Help NOW

    Dude, it's simple. Talk to her. A guy whose a player wouldn't bother to talk about her feelings. And just listen to her. Don't try to convince her you're NOT a player. In fact, embrace it. When you do sweet stuff it'll be confusing and build uncontrollable attraction because she can't figure you out.

    I've mentioned to my LTR that I have orbiters just waiting to pick me up when I'm single, but I balance it with very sweet things that may seem AFC at first, until you see the entire picture that I'm not always sweet. I say mushy gushy stuff to her because I know I don't ALWAYS do it so it'll be appreciated more.

    So go mushy gushy, high school teen drama on her and talk to her. I'm sure you've built up enough cool points to start spending some of them. Just make sure to go back to being a jerk after you do
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    Default Re: Girl in Foul Mood. Extreme sh1t Tests or done goofed? Need Help NOW

    Problem is she’s not talking to me and now she's playing games or wants to get back at me. A mutual friend purposefully invited me to study in a rural part of the library. Within minutes of me showing up she shows up to study with another guy. I ignored them both and left after about 20 minutes....

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    Default Re: Girl in Foul Mood. Extreme sh1t Tests or done goofed? Need Help NOW

    If she's showing up with another guy to make you jealous......that's a GOOD thing. Means that you have that effect on her that she feels the need to make you jealous. Which in turn means she wants you to care.

    But there's no way to find out for sure that's she's doing it on purpose so disregard it. Have you even told her "Hey we need to talk."?
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    Default Re: Girl in Foul Mood. Extreme sh1t Tests or done goofed? Need Help NOW

    Someone just told me a friend(Nerd) of mine has befriended her and has been badmouthing me to her. She's gotten so angry I don't know what lies he's told. Problem is before her I always had the act like a player and mention I was with other women....

    He's been following her to study and talk with her every day now. He also purposefully to accidentally mention about me hooking up with an ex that's in class when I was around her friend.

    Normally I'd phase her out but this is crazy. How do I deal with this situation without being AFC?


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