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    Default Re: Text help needed: Is she boring or is it just me?

    should I reply something like...

    "I'll meet you at 5:49. Don't be late!"

    - too strong? kinda want to get my own way but in a joking way.

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    Default Re: Text help needed: Is she boring or is it just me?

    Again, all this may be new to u but stop worrying about every text. Look ovet the replies here... dont look at the words, look at the SPIRIT of the messages. U have to learn what the messages SAY about YOU. Think about what they convey.

    If this is like the first girl your Doing PUA on, dont worry if u fail with her... you will learn from it and there are more girls out there man.
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    Default Re: Text help needed: Is she boring or is it just me?

    okay guys...

    date update. Feel like I nailed it within the first 30seconds.

    When we first met i thought 7/10 at best but still made the effort to pick up like i left her in the club. With drink and getting to know her 9/10.

    "hey you're *her name*, you're with me tonight...." - as i gave her a hug / kiss on the cheek.

    Date seemed really easy-going, i guess b'cos i was fairly chilled. She did a lot of the talking, but I made sure i was attentive and relating back to things she said in the previous three conversations. I could tell she liked me within the first 5mins, so felt i couldn't really put a foot wrong.

    - thinking about it now. I think if you have the balls to just go over to a random girl in a club and say "hey, i think you're cute... lets go out on *day* next " then unless they say 'NO" - you're in (at least in some way or another at least).

    As i say, date convo couldn't of gone better, there weren't any silences of note and if there was one developing i could tell she was keen to fill them. It seemed like everything i said she felt relevant or funny.

    As you can see from my previous txt msg to her, We met at a tube station close to where she works (and i live). We took the tube to a location and then a taxi to a bar. We got to know each other on the journey (i planed it like that) then after 3 drinks i bounced her to another place (via arm in arm walk + 10min taxi) that place i could tell she was getting a lot more comfortable. A lot of touching, a lot of laughter a lot of personal openness about her life .

    Turns out she's 4yrs older than me. But looks my age. She knows what she wants - and i like that.

    The place opened 1hr longer than advertised so she missed her last train home. She opted for the nightbus. I suggested she stay at mine (in a jokey way b'cos i knew it was so close to her work plus she didn't have any spare clothes so i said she could wear mine) . She playfully replied "not on the first date". K-close happened, completely naturally , then her bus came and i said it's fine, miss it - i'll get her a cab. She was like, no, you can't pay for my cab as well ...... and left (good!)

    and then these are the following texts:

    her : Oh god, I'm 5 mins in needing a wee and having to feel some random mans knee as he thinks it's broke. The thing's I do for a night out x x

    me : You should of let me pay for a taxi xx

    her: The chat up line was 'Do you want to take my number?' Me; 'no thanks, mate' Him; 'Mate, mate? do i look like a pack of there?' Haha! X x

    me: looks like you've got a keeper x

    her: So my punchline fell flat due to a typo. Just home now. How about you? X

    me: I got home about 5 mins ago. I'm still trying to work out your punch line xx

    her : Ok, pack of three - mates condoms.... It wad a sh1t joke but it was his not mine, I'm just the messenger. Anyway, thank you for a lovely evening. I shall have to return the favour if you would like to meet up again x

    gonna reply something about "lucky she's hot because her jokes suck..." She'll totally get that.

    I can tell she wants to meet again and i can also tell she's totally DTF. My number one tip in all of this. Remember that it's her that said yes to your fwd approach (in club in this case), she gave you her number as she totally enjoyed the attention from a 'confident' guy - so carry it on at all costs without coming across arrogant. - If you succeed in the first 30-60 seconds, chances are the rest of your evening is going to go very well indeed.

    Listen to what she has to say and respond accordingly. Don't always agree with her, especially when she ends on a negative note. If she makes a mistake, make fun of her but make sure you're doing it in a way that she can join in too. Don't complain about other in the bar, let her do that.

    As i say, from a few moments into meeting her, i could tell she was into me. This did wonders for my confidence and makes it easy for me to be myself *cos i know that's why she's here - she like me for me!*

    Thanks for all your tips and help guys. I know i've come across needy at times from putting the whole text convo on here and trying to see what you guys would say but that really is just to see what you say. I've still got game but i'm sure it can be improved.

    Anyway, with this girl. The next time i can meet with her is Friday lunchtime. I'm going to f-close her. Going on the number of times she turned the conversation sexual - it's not going to be difficult.


    So it continues.

    *for all the guys out there who are still struggling with bitch butterflys, just jump dudes - seriously - it's so much easier than you've made it out to be and fark it, if you fail there's so many other girls out there - heck, i even got this 19y/o blonds number on the way home - not because i wanted it / thought she was hot etc... but just cos i knew i could!.

    Talk to girls, have fun. it's easier than you think.

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    Default Re: Text help needed: Is she boring or is it just me?

    Hey guys...

    Just checking in with a little update just incase some of you were following this and were interested.

    In my last post i mentioned that she text me saying....

    her : Ok, pack of three - mates condoms.... It wad a sh1t joke but it was his not mine, I'm just the messenger. Anyway, thank you for a lovely evening. I shall have to return the favour if you would like to meet up again x

    and I hadn't replied yet. This is where this exchange picks up.

    Me (3am) : Ah, yeah - that's a pretty terrible joke. He needs to learn what makes someone attractive - clearly it's 90s pop knowledge. xx

    Her (1pm) : I've never had my pop knowledge given as an attractive quality in me, but i like it. I've been awake since 6.30 with a cocktail induced hangover and i hold you, *my full name*, responsible x

    me (1pm the following day - oops!) : Did you sort your hangover with a visit to *food place she mentioned close to her work*? I had such a busy day yesterday then out again last night! Your 90s pop knowledge is definitely an attractive quality... Even more so than you being genetically similar to an Ethiopian looking forward to the next time x

    her (5pm) : I couldn't even face a *food place she mentioned close to her work*. You went out again?! You crazy cat, you. I also mostly resemble David Webb apparently which is on one hand slightly worrying being as he's a man but on the other maybe it's a sign as his marathon PB is 2hrs 15mins.... Ok, i shall let you lead me astray again x

    me (8pm) : Well I'm glad you survived! I knew you would. Next time I'm going to lead you further astray....hope you can keep up ps. guess who's out again xx

    her (8:30pm) : Ah don't worry, I'll be well prepared. I've got a busy week coming up but I'm sure I can fit you in at some point I went for one after work but back home now. Fair play for going out again! X x


    ... and that's where it's been left. I was kinda trying to get her to double text me. It's been a bit "1 to me 1 to you". Plus she said a few times that she was busy but wanted to do something - so was seeing if she would initiate.

    As always, critique / suggestions welcome - they're very much appreciated.

    Ak

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    Default Re: Text help needed: Is she boring or is it just me?

    I think your doing fine so far. She seems playful and communicative... i think you are getting the SPIRIT of texting now. And u see? She wasnt as boring as u thought lol.
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    Default Re: Text help needed: Is she boring or is it just me?

    Thanks for your feedback Lockdown.

    No she's not as boring as I once thought. I suspect she was cold because i was fairly forward to start off with and maybe also b'cos she gets quite a bit of unwanted male attention - being fairly attractive but a bit shy.

    So what do you guys think? the last text exchange was last Friday. Do you think i should reply / start it up again. I was hoping that she would text to arrange something this week - maybe that's asking a bit too much?

    I'm fairly busy this week (inc a girl i met on friday) and i'm pretty sure nothing is going to happen with this one long term (she's 5yrs older than me and i can tell she's wanting kids soon!) But It would be cool to hang out some more / fclose.

    For second dates / fclose dates I usually like to do something activity based but fairly late in the day so we can grab some food go out to a bar after food. Have you guys had success with this / is this the right way to go? If you have any suggestions or ideas on how to handle this one - that would be great.

    Thanks,

    Ak


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