Only just found this site but the guides i've read are good, a real good resource regardless of your interpersonal skill set.
So a bit background about me and this current situation.
Me: I guess i've been fairly lucky in the past as I haven't needed to put much effort in to get girls to like me. However, my last two relationships have been long term and fairly serious so i feel like i've kinda lost 'my game' (even though whatever game i had was probably under developed / utilised).
So, i've come to you guys for help, advice and in the hope that my experience is useful to some of you.
The Situation: Last week i was at a gig with a few mates. Gig was really good, after the gig went to a bar / club. Was kinda in godmode (i had been drinking quite a bit *1) and just talking / dancing with girls and trying to be a good wingbro to my bro who's just come out of a long term relationship.
Night is coming to an end, i haven't really found anyone I personally want to pursue for myself when i catchs a glimpse of this 9/10hottie standing of the edge of dance floor. Still in godmode i go over and say "Hey, I thought you were cute so I thought i'd come over and say Hi". She smiled etc... clearly happy she had been approached. I looked behind her and noticed her friend was chatting to this other guy and she was alone, maybe i should of noticed before - but like i say, i was quite drunk.) So within about 30seconds I held her and kinda pulled her towards the dance floor saying come dance. She just wanted to talk so we talked for about 3minutes about kinda boring stuff (where we live / work / hang out / about the gig we'd both been too) - honestly, i don't think my 'chat' was very good but i did say, "So we should go for a drink next week and get to know each other properly... " She was like, "okay, yeah that would be good let me take your number..." I gave her my number and then, she dials mine / 1rings - so i've got hers.... I tell her it was good to meet her, kiss her on the cheek and tell her i need to go check on my friends (they were more drunk than me and they had work the next day)..
*1 - broTip : It's fine to pick up girls if you've been drinking, but don't try to pick up girls if you're drunk. Know you're limits.
And that's where this text convo picks up... (well done and thanks for making it this far)
The text conversation can be seen at the imgur album below - mods, if this is against the rules please increase the file upload quota so i can upload my .png screen grabs.
She's replying within a 1-2 hr of me texting, and i've been taking like 5hrs+ to reply. Not cos i don't know what to say etc.... just because i don't know?!? It's weird. The last text I received was last night 20:00'ish and i haven't replied yet - WTF!
I feel like the convo is a bit dry / needs livening up a bit. Sometimes I read through and think "god she's a bit dull", but then again I think i could be doing a lot more to help the situation.... and that's where you guys come in....
Let me know what you think... good points / bad points ... where i should go from here.... I've nailed the date within about 90seconds of meeting her but i know i shouldn't just cool off there....
So guys, Let me know what you think...