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    Default what to text a girl you havent seen in awhile?

    so, heres my situation. theres a Girl that I have known from college and used to see out quite abit. But I never really made any move because I never really had confidence back then

    now, shes recently single and I'm thinking about texting her so we can re-connect of sorts. but im at a blank for what to say without sounding creepy/keep it going from there.

    I guess I could start out with a simple "hey, havent seen you in forever! whats going on" but I feel like that leads to a simple oh "nothing much"

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    Default Re: what to text a girl you havent seen in awhile?

    Try something a bit more unexpected...
    Send her a text that will make her smile or laugh.
    Examples:

    "Did I see you on the news this morning? That was a horrible mug-shot!"

    "Hey Chowder-head, I saw you peeking in my window last night... The Pirate costume didn't fool me! "

    "I'm typing this text very slowly, because I know you can't read fast... "

    "Ummm... quick question; poodles AREN'T supposed to talk... right?"

    "What's kickin, baby chicken? I was just thinking about ya..."


    Your first objective is to get her to reply back.... and if you make her laugh, she's GONNA!



    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: what to text a girl you havent seen in awhile?

    I'm no master at these sort of things but an option to get an answer other than a "nothin much..."Is to start off with: "I think I saw you over on Washington Av. Do you work near there?"

    Or better, if you stalk for a bit on Facebook and find out where she works and say you saw her leaving the workplace.

    "I saw you next to the "Grey Industries" building, do you work there?"
    -(her response) since you would know the answer already expect a "yes" but if she says "no" she wants nothing with you.

    Next, you try something like: "I didn't realize you worked so close to my daily route home" (or something) "we should catch up in person."

    What I learned from reading the forums is not to ask to many questions to not look so needy. If she acknowledges a possible meet-up, make suggestions on times and days. Don't ask: "...does that work for you?", "...where do you want to meet?", "...is this time ok?"

    Go with: "How's Starbucks at 9:30?", "Central Park at 12:00" if nothing works ask when her day off is then text.
    "Great! So it's lunch at the dinner on your day off."

    No yes/no questions.

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    Default Re: what to text a girl you havent seen in awhile?

    Try the good ole

    "I saw < > and it reminded of me of you < >"

    I like to use it for a specific purpose. For instance, I was talking to this one girl, I got her number at a party and we were talking about different pizzas we like. So I said

    "I was making this breakfast pizza today and it reminded me of you. Want a slice?"

    was that the best I could do, no but it worked.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple


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