Started talking to a friend who lives in another city. Went to her city last Thursday. She took the day off and we hung out all day. Went to the beach to walk around I Kino escalated on her and we did a lot of "couple" things, like hold hands and a lot of nuzzling. Later that night I did get a feel for her tits and ass while we went dancing at the club, she told me she didn't mind. She wouldn't let me k-close cause she said it was too soon, she just got out of a relationship a few months ago, so I did not escalate any further.
When I went back home, she called me saying how great it was seeing me and that she had an amazing day.
Since then, I haven't really been in contact with her, been busy myself. A few text here and there, but it doesn't seem like she's making any effort in communicating with me, so I take it maybe I didn't build enough attraction.
The same thing happen with another girl two weeks ago. We haven't talked in a while either. I feel like this is a sticking point for me. I realize some girls don't initiate text/phone calls/communication but this girl used to text me/msg me regularly. Now it's pretty much ice cold.
Any advice on what I can do to re-establish attraction at this point on either of the two girls that have been cold? I was thinking I could phone these girls after a short NC period to try to re-establish attraction, but I would not know where to start.
Or any tips on how to avoid this situation for the next girl?