I know there has to be a post out there already...I couldn't find it. But, I have a BIG problem. I live in Greece...newly divorced 2yrs...good looking...athletic.. ....38 and well established...never had a problem with women but, PUA has made flirting a bit more fun for me and now I'm ONLY dating 9's and 10's....from all over Europe.
Ok...here's the problem...I have several "open" relationships going and then I have had several that start out that way and all of a sudden we're "exclusive"...no matter what I say or do they fall DEEPLY in love with me. Now...that's not a problem for me...I love them too but, I'm capable of loving more than one women at a time.
So, my overarching question is what do I do to keep them in my life but, not falling in love with me to the point where they are ASKING ME to merry them??? And...I don't think there's anything wrong with a committed relationship...It's just not where I am in life right now.
Advise??? Oh...I treat them very well...go on trips with them...party with them...and I like it and won't stop that...