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    Default Advice for a girl in college a few hours away

    so im texting this woman who goes to a college a couple hours away. we grew up in the same town though. Anyway we've had a couple phone conversations, mostly brief, consisting of her doing an in depth explanation of something weird/funny/crazy that just happened.

    to get to the point we've been texting a lot and ive read through a lot of the guides and other resources provided here and im trying to go for the bang here or makeout at very least. i know this post is a little long but if you could please read it and give feedback that would be great. thanks

    Im looking for feedback on what i could have done better, what could be corrected, and what i AM doing correctly.
    here are our conversations
    Facebook
    8:39pm
    Sarah
    hey!

    8:40pm
    Me
    hey. what you up to?

    8:40pm
    Sarah
    just got done going to a pure romance party. now i'm making dinner with my roommate and being silly

    8:42pm
    Me
    ooooh thats like lotions and makeup isnt it? oh nice! what are you two cookin up?

    8:43pm
    Sarah
    haha there are other things too we made enchiladas and spanish rice

    8:50pm
    Me
    does anybody actually buy anything or is it just an excuse to play with some awesome dildos for a while haha. that sounds like a tasty dinner. i made some chili last night, im getting a bit better at cooking. i still have a long ways to go though haha

    8:51pm
    Sarah
    haha yeah people actually buy things. i love chili!! i should make some soon.... and just keep cooking and you'll keep getting better! i'm still working on it!

    8:53pm
    Me
    my brother is really good. ive been copying a lot of the stuff he does lol. ive been baking a lot of bread lately. i cant get over how awesome fresh bread is. got any big weekend plans?

    8:53pm
    Sarah
    going home to help my mom get ready for the holidays and see my cat and dog!!

    8:59pm
    Me
    oh sweet. im living with a cat now, im making up for all the years i didnt live with a pet lol. i wish i had a dog of my own though. are you helping get ready willingly or is it gonna be a pain?

    9:00pm
    Sarah
    i'm willingly helping. i like my dog but i love my cat!! i'm definitely a cat person. I always tell my mom i'm gonna be the crazy cat lady that lives at the end of the street that everyone is scared of

    9:04pm
    Me
    ahhaha. (link to pic of cat) she my cuddle buddy when im watching tv haha.

    9:05pm
    Sarah
    omg she is adorable!!! i want another kitty!

    9:06pm
    Me
    i reap the benefits without having to pay for food lol. its a good deal. btw who is your roomate?

    9:07pm
    Sarah
    i have two, their names are brianna and samantha. i'm having some issues with sam though, she can be a bitch for no reason i love bri!!

    9:09pm
    Me
    that sucks. is she just being annoying or she legitimately being a bitch

    9:11pm
    Sarah
    she is a mix of both!! and i still have to live with her until august!

    9:15pm
    Me
    oh jeez. thats like another entire year. luckily the people i live with are all really non argumentative. theyre all like 6 year older though . . . lol. you and bri just facebook creepin people or just hangin at the computer

    9:16pm
    Sarah
    well now we are about to go have some thirsty thursday fun haha. we were creepin though haha. i'm gonna go but ill text you

    9:17pm
    Me
    sounds good

    Phone
    9:19pm
    Sarah
    Hi again. Haha. So what are you up to tonight?

    9:25pm
    Me
    I wish i was hanging out with you two haha its boring here tonight. Everyones gone. im watching how i met your mother and doin the tour de franzia lol. at least crickets(the cat) around. what are you drinking?

    9:29pm
    Sarah
    Malibu, wine, vodka haha amd we are at a friends and we are gonna teach bri(friend) tippy cup.

    9:36pm
    Me
    oh wow sounds like a great time! should i let you go? are you getting an intense game going?

    9:39pm
    Sarah
    not yet we need more roommates to show up. right now its more of a girl talk session haha.

    9:51pm
    Me
    gotcha. are these your sorority sistahs lol? funny story i called the cops on my neighbor the other day

    9:57pm
    Sarah
    no just friends from last year. what were your neighbors doing?

    10:02pm
    Me
    oh cool. i talked to them a bunch of time but they keep parking in our driveway and blocking me in. his car got towed. i feel kinda bad but ugh it was such a pain. more people showing up?

    10:03pm
    Sarah
    yeah but the roommmate we want to show up isnt here yet

    10:10pm
    Me
    unlike you who gets to stay up and party and have a great time, i have to wake up before the crack o' dawn. so i have to let you go :/. hopefully your night gets epic lol. goodnight sarah

    10:11pm
    Sarah
    Night will hopefully we'll get to hang out soon.

    10:12pm
    Me
    Agreed

    4days later
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    7:02pm
    Me
    Did i catch you slaving away? (she does a lot of homework)

    7:19pm
    Sarah
    haha ive been in a sorority meeting but in a little bit ill be slaving away doing a project

    7:40pm
    Me
    total bummer, sounds like a boring night :/. I went to the Y and i swear the woman working looked exactly like you lol, you're much cuter though. how quick are you ditching out for the project?

    8:28pm
    Sarah
    aww good to know im cuter than someone. i just got home my meeting went way long than i though so im starting my project right after i find something to eat

    8:41pm
    Me
    I made some spaghetti with meatballs that had onions and pepper and some spices earlier. it was pretty good but more practice is definitely in order haha. so duty calls huh (bad text, plus no reply)

    next day
    Phone
    6:01pm
    Me
    / (i dont think i can send a blank text with my phone so a "/" is what i decided on)

    9:50pm
    Sarah
    Hey

    9:55pm
    Me
    Hi There. Any mischief for my favorite sarah tonight?

    9:56pm
    Sarah
    nope not tonight. not till sat.

    10:01pm
    Me
    darn. just being a snugglebug watching tv?

    10:04pm
    Sarah
    nope im dry this week for my sorority so its a good time to do homework

    10:08pm
    Me
    haha you're not doing homework right now though right?

    10:10pm
    Sarah
    just got done with a sorority ceremony so now im gonna go do homework

    10:13pm
    Me
    Damn girl! you work hard! at least your priorities are straight lol. the sorority thing wasnt another dildo party was it. . . (dildo party is pure romance party)

    10:14pm
    Sarah
    hahaaha nope. but there are more of those coming up and im co-hosting one with my roommate in march

    10:19pm
    Me
    Kinky . do you have to walk home in the cold?

    10:20pm
    Sarah
    haha . nope i got a ride with a friend

    10:23pm
    Me
    nice. friends with cars ftw. going to grab something scrumptious before you get your nose to the grindstone?

    10:24pm
    Sarah
    nope but i have a jar of canday with my name on it!

    10:29pm
    Me
    dont forget to brush lol. i need to go though. got chewed out for being to work at 5:45am instead of 5:30. sweet dreams. dont work too hard! ( i actually did have to go)

    10:31pm
    Sarah
    ill try not to work too hard! ill talk to you again soon! Night

    sorry its so long. if you could please give me feedback that would be great!

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    Default Re: Advice for the future-bang . . .

    Good is that the rapport building is going smoothly, bad is that you while have built attraction first. This whole conversation seems like you wanna b friends with her.
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    Default Re: Advice for the future-bang . . .

    If you're trying to build rapport, you're doing great.
    But if you're going for attraction....? Not so much.

    Rapport without attraction = friend zone.

    You need to cut the Fluff talk & flirt more.


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    Default Re: Advice for the future-bang . . .

    Haha got the notification on tmals right wheni posted mine. Seems were in agreement
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    Default Re: Advice for the future-bang . . .

    i understand the nick/petnames and future projection but im pretty unfamiliar with how to really flirt CORRECTLY.

    There are three things, now that im thinking about it are pretty important. First is that she is without a doubt a virgin. second is that she definitely had a crush on me in high school (3 years ago). Third is that she drove back to our hometown for a weekend and asked to hang out. This would have been PERFECT. i was genuinely busy though and could not drive back to meet her. its a good sign that she was the first to suggest hanging out correct?

    I guess i have trouble coming up with good innuendos and im not very confident that I know how to effectively transition her into a more sexual state.

    If i do end up pushing the sexual references/innuendos too far and she gets weird about it, should i just call her a prude, back off and try again next time? I am assuming that the goal is to push the conversation to the most sexual place possible without crossing the line, correct?

    {Me-ooooh thats like lotions and makeup isnt it? oh nice! what are you two cookin up?
    Sarah-haha there are other things too we made enchiladas and spanish rice}
    i know what a pure romance party is. not only did she answer BOTH questions but she decided to let me know there were dildos. maybe im wrong but is that not significant?

    {well now we are about to go have some thirsty thursday fun haha. we were creepin though haha. i'm gonna go but ill text you}
    This was when she continued our conversation from facebook over to texting. its a good sign that even after signing off facebook she still wanted to talk isnt it?

    {Sarah-hahaaha nope. but there are more of those coming up and im co-hosting one with my roommate in march
    Me-Kinky . do you have to walk home in the cold?}
    I feel like this would have been a key place to escalate but all i could come up with was "kinky " what would have been one or a couple of good things to say that would bring the conversation to an even more sexual place?

    I know this is pitiful haha. continued feedback much appreciated

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    Default Re: Advice for the future-bang . . .

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    Default Re: Advice for the future-bang . . .

    Yes I would say she's interested. The sexual conversation really isn't what matters that much, its the acting sexual or effectively kinoing her that counts. I have used the prude neg and it works well as a diffuser
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Advice for a girl in college a few hours away

    thanks for the link T-Mal. pretty much exactly what i was looking for lol.

    dalton- i know its all building towards physical interaction in person, and at that point i can start incorporating some of the things ive learned here. The only thing i can do at this point is text and talk on the phone with her. with my next text conversation im going to crank the flirt knob way up and just see what kind of responses i get. ill work from there. Its been a full day with no interaction and she initiated last time so i wont be coming across as "needy" when i text her tonight. ill post the results if review is needed

    thanks a lot for the bit of insight you've been able to provide so far.

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    Default Re: Advice for a girl in college a few hours away

    Oh yeah thats right, sorry Bro, guess I kinda thought when you were asking what to do next you meant when you saw her. My bad
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    Default Re: Advice for a girl in college a few hours away

    no biggy. i appreciate your replies. im sort of having trouble coming up with something good to start with when i throw her a text.

    I was thinking of saying "buenas noches your sexiness . . ." but is calling her sexy too much of a compliment?

    maybe something like "Soo your evening just got much better :P" implying that my texting her would be bettering her night. idk, am i on the right track with this? cocky good?


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