Guys, I could use some advice on this one.
My girlfriend of about 2 months now (still early on obviously) had a bad day yesterday and out of the blue freaked out on me via text and phone calls. Started off the day great with happy texts to me, then by the late afternoon she started texting me out of the blue about something that was bothering her. Turns out she is having a Jealosy issue with one of my girl-friends that I've known for a long time (that has been contacting me quite a bit recently, I agree a bit much). I tried to comfort her with some texts and via phone that it is a non-issue, and I agree and understand her concern, and it will slow down/stop.
She seemed calmed down about this. She was out with a friend of hers for a bit, and wound up running into an ex-bf. She freaked out, started crying and texting up a storm to me about how she dosn't want to be there, is feeling so shitty etc. She then went off about how low self confidence she has, and was questioning what I even see in her and why I am with her. Even went as far as to say "you're just going to leave me in the end anyways, thats what guys do".
I called her, told her to relax, and that I would come pick her up and take her home. She did not want me to, said she needs to be alone in a moment like this, dosn't want to talk to friends, family, anyone. I re-iteratted that I would just come get her, but she refused two more times so I respected her opinion and dropped it (should I just have went without asking to get her?). She told me she felt bad because I'm up late dealing with her and that I need to go to bed. We ended the call ok. Then I texted her a "sweet" text basically saying that I feel lucky everyday to have her as my GF, I care about her, and she should never doubt that for a minute, and a Goodnight with kiss emoticon thing.
No response back. Now it was like 11 and she may have been sleeping or not in the mood to talk anymore, but I found the no response unusual. Did I drop the ball getting sappy here with her? I thought I needed to since she was having all these doubts in my intentions with her. I wanted to comfort her.
Have not heard from her yet this morning, however it is only about 9:30am. She usually will text me a goodmorning before 11, we shall see. How should I handle this guys? Now I'm the one freaking out. This relationship has been AWESOME for me so far, and this hit me out of the blue. Now I'm afraid she will be freaking out about me and break up today.
Should I just leave it for awhile and give her space until she contacts me today? Or should I be saying something in awhile?