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    Lightbulb Openers for Texting a Girl

    I'm trying to improve my text game because right now it's garbage. I'm done with the "Hey!" or "How's your day." I've though of a few openers I want to try so please critique them and make suggestions. Also, if you Field Test any, let me know how they work .

    Text #1:
    "Free to for dinner tonight? I'm in the store and need to know if I should buy enough Ramen for both of us."

    If she says yes you could add:
    "Ok cool. So do you prefer the shrimp or the chicken flavor."

    If she says no:
    "Well, for future reference, do you prefer the shrimp or chicken flavor?"

    Text #2: this may work for students. But you could easily replace the class with you job or something.
    "[some class] is trying to kill me & I heard [her class] is coming for you! We gotta run. If we leave tonight, we'll be in Mexico living a science free life by the morning!"

    Text #3: I saw this online, but thought it was good.
    "Hey [her name], just wanted to check in with you and see if you've won the lottery or done anything cool since the last time I saw you."

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    Default Re: Openers for Texting a Girl

    Check this thread for an in-depth breakdown of texting.



    Don't go for a "date / get-together" in the first text. Te first thing you want to do is get her responding.
    The best way to do that is to make the interaction fun & playful.

    Then, when she's having fun, she'll be more likely to say "yes" to meeting up.

    Also- here are a few example "text openers" I've used, that were successful.

    "Hey, do your cookbooks have any recipes on how to cook a gazelle? I'm totally stumped at the moment."

    "I swear the waitress had a mustache when I went to lunch today!! Yosemite Sam would be sooooo jealous!!"

    "There may or may not be a briefcase full of money in my trunk... what do you think the odds are? ;o) "

    "What's goin on, little swan? You're not in jail are you? (I hope not because I can't afford to bail you out!!!) ;o) "

    "OK, so there was either a Grizzly Bear in my mirror this morning, or I just really look like HELL when I wake up!"


    They're random & silly.... so the girl is gonna laugh, or at the very least, smile when she reads it.
    That's the key to getting a reply.


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    Default Re: Openers for Texting a Girl

    Okay need a little help with this, it just happened to me now now on FB..i opened a chick randomly..

    Me: Omg ur so cute...but only when you pose with girls less attractive than you
    Her: lol [I chose to ignore this short reply and keep going]
    Me: It's a phenomenon i've noticed in most gatherings nowadays...but i like the playful character u give off keep it up and we might pose together
    Her: Haaaaaah [Had to call it out now]
    Me: Are you just speechless or ur always like this?

    No further response from her...this thing has been happening to me countless times lately, Where i open a girl she replies and when i text again its game over wtf!..I used to be very good with keeping their interest in the past but nowadays im failing miserably..i think there is one essential piece im missing in my texts but i cant seem to figure it out

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    Default Re: Openers for Texting a Girl

    So using the Gazelle line. Laughed my ass off when I read it. Too funny.
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    Default Re: Openers for Texting a Girl

    I haven't done any Facebook gaming myself, but I've had MONSTROUS success with Online Dating sites.

    I know there's a slightly different approach to take, but I'd be willing to bet there are a lot of similarities too.

    My texting guide here on the forums has a few examples of message openers I used on POF & Match.com, that worked really well.

    Here's a snippet:

    I wrote: SUBJECT LINE: "Hey Spunky Brewster!!!

    So, I'm reading your profile & you sound like a super-normal, regular next door neighbor sort of woman.
    However; your pictures capture an unmentioned quality about you...

    Something in your eyes gives away the fact that you're a bit spunky/sassy. There's a more upbeat, playful, adventurous side that you didn't describe, but it's totally noticeable.
    (Just sayin')

    I'm Mark by the way.
    I hope your weekend has been full of awesomeness!


    **Her Reply**

    RE:Hey Spunky-Brewster!!!

    100%, without out a doubt, the most fantabulous email i have ever gotten!!!!!
    And.... Just maybe.... I might have a little spunk in me!!
    A man that has or is going to read 50 shades.... Yep.. I will say that that too is a plus!
    I am actually anxious to get your next email!!
    Btw.... I’m Kellie


    Another one I used went like this:

    I wrote: (SUBJECT LINE) You have impeccable grammar

    I'm not sure what got my attention the most; but I DO know that the spelling, grammar & intelligently written profile had a lot to do with it! ;o)

    Also- I sense you possess a wonderfully sarcastic side & could probably be given the nickname "Miss Sassy-Pants" & it would be well suited to you.

    If you come across this clearly in written word, I bet you're an absolute riot in real life!
    Have a happy 4th!!

    -Mark




    ******Her Reply******
    RE: You have impeccable grammar!

    Thank you Mark!
    That is so refreshing that someone would complement me on how my profile is written, I can assure you.... IT.IS.A.FIRST!!!! And, I wrote it all by myself, no help, honest!
    Although I cannot say, I never use slang or abbr. but I believe there is a time a place for both sides of me.

    As far as my sarcastic and sassy pants side.... let's just say that I have never been accused of holding in what I really think. I get it honestly, it runs in the family.

    I do enjoy laughing and making jokes, even at my expense. I feel there are too many areas in life that must be serious, so if I can find a loop hole here and there, you better believe I am going to take it.

    Hope you have a Happy 4th as well.
    Stacey


    These might give you a couple ideas. They probably need to be tweaked just a bit for FB, but notice the more genuine, honest approach & how there's a degree of flirtiness mixed in without sounding AFC or like I'm "hitting on her".

    Try changing up your style of introductory messages if you're not getting the desired results.



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    Default Re: Openers for Texting a Girl

    My favourite one I use all the time is 'just got attacked by a giant octopus with a sharks head I mange to fight it off though, was heroic I bet your day hasn't been soo exciting? '

    Always gets an amusing response

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Openers for Texting a Girl

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    So using the Gazelle line. Laughed my ass off when I read it. Too funny.
    I was watching "Bizarre Foods" one night & the idea came to me. LOL!!

    It's such a weird, silly, random statement... but it's memorable.

    Another one I just recently used was:
    "Ummm... quick question; Poodles AREN'T supposed to talk... right?"

    It was also quite effective.


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    Default Re: Openers for Texting a Girl

    Hahahaha! Thats amazing. Testing them both
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    Default Re: Openers for Texting a Girl

    Haha thats awesome! Testing both of them out tonight
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    Default Re: Openers for Texting a Girl

    T-mal, you're the man! I'm trying the mustache text tonight. That's hilarious and then I can keep the convo going with Movember or whatever.


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