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    Default First date with online girl who messaged me

    A week ago this girl messaged me (first) on a dating site. We spoke loads online during the day into the evening before ending up exchanging numbers.

    Since then we've exchanged photos (all clean) and text'd every day for the last seven days.

    We've spoken on the phone a couple of times. Once for over an hour and the next time was a few minutes to say what's up.

    I like this girl. She seems to have a good vibe. However, tomorrow we meet up for the first time and obviously wanna make a good impression.

    Arranging a time and a place hasn't been straight forward because she drives to her workplace. Traffic is a female dog in London. If I knew her better I'd say let's drive somewhere but I don't think we're quite on that level.

    Some how I've ended up saying "let me know where's easiest for you to meet and give me a time." Which kinda felt weak on my part. She's not even replied to that text.

    Not quite sure how to approach the situation. I'm refusing to message her until I get a response. The question is, if she does reply where should we go? There are only bars where she's based. But she can't drink.

    Coffee?

    Bowling is too much of a struggle to get to driving.

    Usually I'm so organised but feel like I've flopped already. Any advice?

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    Default Re: First date with online girl

    Sight Seeing is always fun in london....

    1. you could go Tower Hill to se the Crown Jewels

    2.Take her Camden Market and go to the Market

    3.Or Regent Street and Oxford Circus for Shopping

    4.Embankment and The Mall to Big Ben and The Queens house...

    5.Covent Garden for great street performers

    You could take lots of pictures and create memories...


    I'd take her to Camden personally i love camden you can get there by train or bus...

    1.Lots of food and variety of food...

    2.Street performers

    3.Interesting stalls selling all sorts and loads of awesome things to take pictures of. and at night loads of bars and clubs open near there..

    the Worlds End is a good bar... KoKo good too...

    Camden has it all in my opinion...

    i took two girls i met online from holland there and they wet there panties lol

    Showed em around and they bought almost every top they saw lool had some good food, smoked a sheesha and raved in cyber dog... Stables had some awesome vintage bags and clothing too... and one of the girls decided to get her ear pierced as a souvenir... I joined in with the street performers which was fun aswell...


    Enjoy and let us know how you got on

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    Default Re: First date with online girl

    Hey Chappy. Thanks for the reply dude.

    I really like the camera idea. I'm going to play a betting game. Who can take the best photos. We'll show each other our photos later during the date. (Inspired by you!)

    By the way, she's replied. Liverpool Street it is.

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    Default Re: First date with online girl who messaged me

    Hey, just to update you. The first date was horrible. Well horrible from point of view I wasn't leading it. I wasn't able to run all the lines I'd imagined. Either they weren't working or the moment was off. So, I decided a different approach.

    Sounds silly but I listened to everything she said. Then it hit me, this girl probably had gold medal for just talking. So I let her talk. We were in a bar at a table, sandwiched between lots of couples, mainly all trendies. I was overly friendly with everyone, smiled a lot. I think she was comfortable chatting away.

    Then I broke her convo and said I didn't trust her. A bit bizarre but I wanted to take the chat somewhere else. Obviously she was desperate to know what I meant, hoping I was kidding. I said most pretty girls have baggage, what is yours? Then I let her know that I wasn't flirting with her because I'm not as good as reading signs anymore, "well not tonight." After which I excused myself and went to the bathroom. This was all a test. Like, unrehearsed. Wasn't sure where it was going.

    So I returned and suggested we left and got something to eat. As we were walking to a restaurant the date went horrible again. She said I seemed like a guy who knew what he wanted but she wasn't after a relationship. Then she held my hand? WTF? #confusedface

    Like an idiot allowed it.

    We got to the Thai place and was seated. She went back into that chatty zone. I decided to flirt with the waitress, within reason. I asked the waitress her name, what her hours were, what she recommended, more napkins. Just wanted a parralell conversation when needed. This worked! (I have never done this to such extreme - I recommend trying it.)

    The best line of the night: "Hi again, I really need a double expresso." To which the waitress replied, "Are you trying to stay awake?" Lucky?

    So we left the restaurant and his time I held her hand, as opposed to the other way around like last time. I walked her to the car. She drove me home. We kissed for a bit and that was that.

    Since then we've dated a few more times. She's a nice girl but not sure if she's the one. I'd like her to be. We'll see.


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