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  1. #1
    absolutbassist is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default need to recover from this situation...looks like there's hope

    Hey guys,

    Before I start, let me just mention that I'm by no means a PUA...I still consider myself an AFC just with a few tricks up his sleeve after recently having read about the game. That being said, I've got a lot to learn.

    Anyway, I managed to strike up a chat with a girl on FB and she was responding really positively. In fact, when I tried the cocky-funny routine to get her number, she spilled it before I could even finish the routine.

    We continued the convo that night via text and it went great. Tons and tons of IOIs. But the next 2-3 days (leading to today), she doesn't seem receptive...late replies or none at all, and I have made the dumb mistake of sending 2 texts in a row, etc just to rekindle the conversation. Sometimes that did work (again, using pua tips to word my texts) but soon after she'd fall silent again, even though he rare replies seemed genuinely interested.

    Where do I go from here? Obviously I'm going to wait it out a bit, but it's clear she hasn't completely lost interest because it still comes out. When it is time to text again (I'd say in 2 days or so) what should I be trying to get across/say?

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    mysterioustoker is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need to recover from this situation...looks like there's hope

    hey. im really really new to this too. i was sort of in the same situation as you. my problem was that i wasnt flirting enough. the conversation was filled with too much Fluff talk and not enough innuendos and fun teasing. Once i starting flirting harder she responded well.

    ive gotten some pointers in my thread from the regulars here. Take a look and see how i was more flirty in the last conversation i posted.

    My biggest concern was my ability to effectively transition from regular conversation to more of a flirting conversation

    my thread (may provide insight)
    its the advice for college girl a few hours away in this same section
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...ours-away.html

    hope that helps a bit

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    absolutbassist is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need to recover from this situation...looks like there's hope

    Thanks, mysterioustoker I'll definitely keep that in mind. Only question is how should I go about re-sparking a conversation without seeming too needy?

    Oh, I forgot to mention more background so let me say it here.
    So the first night as I mentioned we hit it off really well, kind of flirty/playful, after my being cocky funny worked. It still works.

    The next 2 days she kinda fell silent on me, and I feel like I made it worse by trying to rekindle the conversation too much.
    After that we hung out (which we planned to on the first night) and it went well. The cocky/funny stuff still got through to her, made her laugh every time, etc. And there was some legitimate getting to know each other too.
    Then I texted her a while after that, referring to some inside jokes that popped up, etc, but she didn't really seem responsive.
    And that's where I'm at now.

    Again, thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: need to recover from this situation...looks like there's hope

    To be honest ( I am new also) but I have read a lot in here and I think that if you don't have a strong 'text game' you should just use it to set up a meeting. Since I've joined here, I've wrapped my head around a lot of concepts. I have found that the less I text the more face to face I can get.

    I tried this on an unresponsive class mate

    "You're a boring texter . I am grabbing that Sandwich I was bragging about tomorrow night. you're coming. "

    She said she was busy but asked me to go with her somewhere on a different time. I think you have to show her you're the man and won't be chasing her forever.

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    Default Re: need to recover from this situation...looks like there's hope

    i might say something like

    "you were much more fun when i first met you lol. we'll do coffee on saturday. Theres still hope . . ."

    since youve already double texted i think you should send one more and then just stop until she replies. if shes doesnt respond for a day or two maybe send on more saying

    "this is your last chance at happiness. dont be square, lets go out again"

    just my two cents. i dont really know what the quality of that opener is. I think it would be a good one though

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    absolutbassist is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need to recover from this situation...looks like there's hope

    Tried pretty much everything you guys suggested, I guess she's got ice running through her veins.

    Time to move on.

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    Default Re: need to recover from this situation...looks like there's hope

    Sometimes moving on is the best you can do man. At least you tried and didn't come off as too needy. So did she ever respond?

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    Default Re: need to recover from this situation...looks like there's hope

    I struck up a convo with her on fb, it was very weak though and no ioi's...she didn't reply for a few minutes so I took the initiative and told her I was going to bed and that's the end of it


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