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    Default Handle Her Late Mistake?

    This is my first post/thread and I'm very new to the art of PU.

    I'm asking for advice on how to handle a situation like this or one similar in the future...

    And I'm asking for a critique of how I handled it this time...

    And how should I follow up from this point.


    Ok so I met this girl first day of class and got her number. Ran into her on campus every now and then and always have quick fun chats. I never texted her or even thought about her until we ran into each other after about 2 months (she looked hot). I told her I was late for class but I would text her sometime. So later that day....

    Me: Please tell me you DONT secretly go to the Twilight movies?
    Her: Lol how did you know? Its my first time going and only because my friend asked me.
    Me: You would!!! That settles it we can't be friends anymore...
    Her: Awww darn! You're missing out on an amazing friend...
    Me: Haha thats what I thought when I ran into you today... Till I realized we have never hung out. How tragic. Lets do something about that; what are you doing this weekend?
    Her: Lol absolutely nothing
    Me: Come get coffee with me Saturday.
    Her: I don't drink coffee
    Me: Last I checked Starbucks sold more than just coffee
    Her: Well excuse me lol
    Me: Your excused. So I'll see you lets say 3 on saturday.
    Her: yes you will

    That was thursday...So on Saturday I confirmed our meeting with a simple:
    Me: Hey Twilight nerd are we still on for coffee?
    Her: Yes which Starbucks again?

    I told her the location and said see you there (I didn't mention time but I assumed 3 like we planned)

    I arrived about 10mins early and ordered my coffee and read the rolling stone...waiting...wa iting

    At 3:25 I texted her and said:
    Me: 5 mins and then I'm gone
    Her: what?
    Me: At Starbucks.
    Her: It's not even 4 yet...I'm on my way Mr. Impatient
    Me: We made plans for 3 Mrs. Oblivious
    Her: I could have sworn it was 4...
    Me: Nope 3...we will have to reschedule...I have to be somewhere at 5 and 30mins is not enough time for you to get to know me
    Her: lol...well thats fine. I'll just get Starbucks since I'm almost there.
    Me: Try the peppermint mocha, its my favorite.
    Her: For sure

    Thats was it... I left

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    Default Re: Handle Her Late Mistake?

    New Update: She texted me back today (the next day):
    Her: Hey [my name]. Im going to pass on rescheduling. I dont like how you spazzed out on me yesterday. I think you may have the wrong idea. And I am not trying to lead me on or anything.


    I haven't responded and have no real feelings for this girl but would love to utilize this situation to grow my skills.

    Does anyone have any advice here on the freakin website!?!

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    Default Re: Handle Her Late Mistake?

    I don't think you really spazzed out at all, unless you've left out part of the text. I think you did well in showing that you won't take her being late or ditching you.

    Did she say she wasn't trying to LEAD YOU ON?

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    Default Re: Handle Her Late Mistake?

    Opps typo on my part, yes she said lead you on (implying me). And no I left nothing out..

    Whats my move from this point?

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    Default Re: Handle Her Late Mistake?

    Hmmm. See she escalated it too much. I don't think you did anything wrong. Maybe you should freeze her out. Ignore the text, because at the end of the day You're Alpha, you don't give a crap and don't take her crap. Which you ALREADY demonstrated by leaving when she was late. She is CLEARLY interested and looking for a response, otherwise why would she text you to say she'll pass on the reschedule? She could have simply ignored your subsequent attempts. So we know you're in a good position, now she's looking for you to go all AFC and apologize *which you know not to do* I would FREEZE her out, and next time you see her be extra cocky/funny and don't address the issue. If she brings it up, tell her you get tons of texts and nothing more. Hit on other classmates...make her jealous?

    Overall she wants you to explain yourself...don't. You're gold.

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    Default Re: Handle Her Late Mistake?

    Thank you that was my thought as well.

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    Default Re: Handle Her Late Mistake?

    good luck man, if you play your cards right she'll definitely come back for more

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    Default Re: Handle Her Late Mistake?

    You did nothing wrong. She couldn't pay attention enough to know when to come, you had sh1t to do, you left and you were cool about it. Don't let her Sh1t Test ruin your frame. Fuser, I'm going to have to disagree with you on this one. Buffalo, I'd go so far as to say that if you ignore this, she'll know she can walk all over you.

    I would say, "I told you when to come and you disrespected me and my time by not caring enough to know when to show up. Then you had the nerve to say that I "spazzed out" after I was nice enough to say that we could reschedule. If you don't have the capacity to understand that then I couldn't be more happy I didn't waste any more of my time with someone who has such a selfish attitude."

    Why would you want a girl who pulls that kind of sh1t and then acts like YOU are the problem???

    Read this

    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...g-asshole.html
    Last edited by Sal_Paradise; 11-18-2012 at 10:05 PM. Reason: Greater clarity.

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    Default Re: Handle Her Late Mistake?

    Ok so I sent out pretty much what you just wrote but left out the selfish part and and just put "Im quite happy to pass on rescheduling as well".

    First time actually being harsh with a girl...felt kinda bad and good at the same time. Like I said I could care less if I ever see her again.

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    Default Re: Handle Her Late Mistake?

    Awesome. That's a great attitude to have.


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