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Thread: i find myself initiating convo more than i'd like to.

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    Question i find myself initiating convo more than i'd like to.

    i am typically the one initiating contact. is there a method i can use to change this?

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    Default Re: i find myself initiating convo more than i'd like to.

    i think your best bet is to charm her pants off in person. If you can, set up a date with her and once her have her laughing, maybe start Kino

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    Default Re: i find myself initiating convo more than i'd like to.

    I used to have this problem. It is possible you may not be generating enough attraction either in person, or on the initial meet.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: i find myself initiating convo more than i'd like to.

    Quote Originally Posted by thelunatic View Post
    i am typically the one initiating contact. is there a method i can use to change this?
    Obviously you haven't generated interest if you find yourself doing this. Hell, she may just be bored when she replies and not attracted to you at all. You need to change her mind about you. Remember, you're creating a whole new you here, not just learning a couple of cheap gimmicks. Like the other guy said, you need to get her more into you in person. But try being more suggestive over text and cocky funny. I find that when I do that, she'll initiate maybe like every other day.


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