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    Zemini is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default The Second Date, she cancels

    Hello.

    Been doing pretty well the last month or so, but then I completely screwed up. I found a girl I actually really liked

    So the first date was great. Lots of ioi's! She laughed at every dumb thing I was saying and so I set up a second dinner date a couple days later.

    Well the morning of the Date, she texts me and says she is sick and can't go tonight and says she really wishes she could.

    Is she legit? Well i made the mistake of txting her back and saying I am sorry and hope she fells better, and yadda yadda. Apparently she has something wrong with her stomach. If she is telling the truth I don't want to play games with her and add anxiety to her stomach problems

    What should I do now?

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    Default Re: The Second Date, she cancels

    Well, what makes you think she's lying? If all went well, you should be confident she wants to see you. Did she try to reschedule for another day? Or did you suggest it?

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    Default Re: The Second Date, she cancels

    She picked the restaurant and the time. When she cancelled she says she was looking forward to it. No reschedule. But we are texting a little back and forth so it may lead up to that.

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    Default Re: The Second Date, she cancels

    Sounds pretty legit too me. Don't worry just because she canceled. Give her a chance for crying out loud man. Look at it as ioi. Would you want to make her sick, if you went out? Some people would be pretty pissed if you did that!

    I think her saying she is super sick and not rescheduling comes off as legit. Don't worry about it. Text her in a few days.

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    Default Re: The Second Date, she cancels

    I agree with Ankus. Whatever you do, keep the attraction going and don't give yourself away too much. Maybe cut the text a little bit to keep her interested. Too much texting if not done correctly can friend zone you. So be careful with that.

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    Default Re: The Second Date, she cancels

    Yea, Fuser is right. Don't use texting right now to build comfort. Use texting only as a tool to see her again.

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    Default Re: The Second Date, she cancels

    Quote Originally Posted by Anuks View Post
    Yea, Fuser is right. Don't use texting right now to build comfort. Use texting only as a tool to see her again.
    This is a mistake I used to make... got he message now though.. don't have in depth talk with texts.. just use it as a tool to arrange a meeting


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