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    Default Can't finish girls flake at the end

    I get some girls numbers and get them even warmed up. I can never pull through every girl flakes at the last second. Idk why I can get a lot of smiles and sexual talks but I can't get them to come over and it really sucks. Idk I'm just tired of them flaking not sure what's wrong
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    Default Re: Can't finish girls flake at the end

    you can get them to come over?

    you're just inviting them to your house... straight off the bat? That is where you are going wrong.

    for a first meeting you want neutral ground in a public place, nothing that suggests you are planning on nothing but sex as well i.e. no hotels!

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    Default Re: Can't finish girls flake at the end

    parks / lunch places / cafes are good low-pressure first dates, parks mainly if you have a dog to bring that can wing for u (y)

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    Default Re: Can't finish girls flake at the end

    No like they mention they want some fun or that we should do something. So after I know that I just basically talk sexual and invite them over
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    Default Re: Can't finish girls flake at the end

    if they hint on that i would say the sticking point is you're showing too much interest as soon as they indicate "they're ready," try something low key and you can always do a Takeaway back to your house or car - see how that plays

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    Default Re: Can't finish girls flake at the end

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    No like they mention they want some fun or that we should do something. So after I know that I just basically talk sexual and invite them over
    It really is rare that a girl will just come to your house straight of the bat! you could be a serial killer for all they know... its all about making it as easy as possible for you to meet; therefore, any small change (i.e. meeting down the pub first) that makes it easier for her to agree to meet you is worth it.

    I agree with hyp you are likely showing too much interest too soon as well, you need to push and pull a bit more, when she gets really keen bust her on it and push her back a little. It will make her want you more and build attraction.

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    Thumbs up Re: Can't finish girls flake at the end

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    No like they mention they want some fun or that we should do something. So after I know that I just basically talk sexual and invite them over

    Thats your problem right there. Just because a lady says she wants to have fun or do something, doesn't automatically mean she wants to sleep with you. She might want to jump out a plane or go to a really good party/club. You might be escalating to sexual talk too soon and this could cause a lady to flake.

    Game has a pretty specific formula to follow, although sometimes you might get away with skipping a few steps, this however will not always be the case. Lock your game down tight so that you start seeing results then feel free to experiment which steps you could skip with certain ladies

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    Default Re: Can't finish girls flake at the end

    I guess inviting them over for a movie is better then saying come over some fun. I ask them if they want some fun and they usually say what do you mean or I'm busy something like that. It's really hard because I had 5 girls I knew wanted to have sex with me if I could get them to hang out with me
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    Default Re: Can't finish girls flake at the end

    Not trying to hijack thread im on practically the same boat. I have a decent sucess rate getting numbers. We text back and forth great combo lots of lol's flirty texts and what not. Within the next day we are talking about sex.Though i dont invite them back to my place i tell them lets go grab a drink or what not. But im guessing it looks desperate for me to tell them that right after we sexted or maybe I am F*ing up in the rapport or comfort building stage.

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    Default Re: Can't finish girls flake at the end

    I would try and be different. The way I understand this is that shes pressing your buttons to see how you tick. She mentions sex, you say lets go. BOOOORING. You are the prize, remember that, so make her throw more than one dart to pop that balloon at the carnival.

    Be playful and let her know that she hasn't totally won you over. T-Mal told me a good one: "We can hang out but don't expect to get lucky, I'm on my period"


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