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    Default Future projecting a date?

    So this girl and I have an incredible connection. All of our tastes are in tune. She mentioned she likes comedy clubs.

    I said "I feel like we have a pretty good connection. You seem cool, so we should hit up a comedy club soon."

    I've only online number closed, texted for a few days. Am I being beta?

    She said "I guess as much of a connection as two people can have texting, ya but that sounds good!"

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    Default Re: Future projecting a date?

    Quote Originally Posted by konman View Post
    So this girl and I have an incredible connection. All of our tastes are in tune. She mentioned she likes comedy clubs.

    I said "I feel like we have a pretty good connection. You seem cool, so we should hit up a comedy club soon."

    I've only online number closed, texted for a few days. Am I being beta?

    She said "I guess as much of a connection as two people can have texting, ya but that sounds good!"
    "Hmm, I've never connected with someone beyond texting... what's that like "

    Don't ^ text her what I just said lol not prior to the first meetup

    ...but to answer your question: no, there's nothing beta about telling her she's up to your standards and can hang with you. Sometimes using the word "should" or "we'll have to" can feel a bit beta because it implies an external authority, but it's fine IMO. Little things like that don't have a significant effect on a soild frame, and they are a bit lower key than "let's" and "we'll" - really just depends if you can to seem casual ("should") or dominant ("let's") - but that's probably more analysis than needed
    Last edited by Autismus; 11-22-2012 at 12:28 AM. Reason: forgot to actually answer the question, while loling
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    Default Re: Future projecting a date?

    Quote Originally Posted by konman View Post
    So this girl and I have an incredible connection. All of our tastes are in tune. She mentioned she likes comedy clubs.

    I said "I feel like we have a pretty good connection. You seem cool, so we should hit up a comedy club soon."

    I've only online number closed, texted for a few days. Am I being beta?

    She said "I guess as much of a connection as two people can have texting, ya but that sounds good!"
    that was a bit beta but u can still recover. come on man what's your problem? just flirt more build more attraction and ask her out on a date she seems into you a bit or else she wouldn't have said ya that sounds good.
    P.S: work on you're inner game.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.


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