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Thread: Flirting to hard?

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    Default Flirting to hard?

    So i met this girl last week who I've gotten a liken too. We were at a party and madeout a bit and I got her number. Texted her the next day with some inside joke and saying she made a good impression

    She ended there with "Thanks, I had fun also "

    Texted next day about something I saw reminding me of her and Asked her to meet up that day. She said she was busy and had a project but another time.

    I waited two days texted with a "Help!! I'm trapped in a terrible situation"

    Got good responses and then we started to go on about chirstmas.
    She said it would be weird to have xmas in a Sundress (talking about warm weather places)
    Me: I guess it would be weird. but I'd prefer the sundress, get to see more skin
    She stopped replying here and I havn't said anything since.

    I hope that didn't come off as too creepy. I plan to get a funny question to text her this weekend and then finally call her to try and set something up. Or should I just keep building something and invite her to weekend gathering

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    Default Re: Flirting to hard?

    how long has it been? maybe she just hasn't gotten around to reply? If she doesn't not engage, wait a bit more then just ignore your previous remarks and start with a new open/ and ect ect.

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    Default Re: Flirting to hard?

    Usually, its not good to send texts like that too early on. She made out with u so your text implies that you want to go further... implying that is fine, but that text is a little too forward which might have creeped her out.

    Or as was said, she could just need more time.
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    Default Re: Flirting to hard?

    I sent the text on Wed and still nothing. Im waiting till I head back to school on sunday and will try and re engage conversation.

    It was thanksgiving weekend so I can assume its busy for both us. I plan to call her sunday after I text a question that needs a more indepth answer.

    I think she will respond to me but I need to find a way to get to meet up. If I get a phone conversation with her, I probably will say lets get coffee this week but not sure to make it a definite or say ok well discuses it later.

    I'm pretty new to this pickup/game and this is one of my first times actually engaging with a girl. Finally feels good and can't wait to continue.

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    Default Re: Flirting to hard?

    Maybe she didn't like where the conversation went so it got stale for her.
    This might be over analyzing but if she says "I like X" and you say "I don't like X" she may be inclined to ditch the conversation.

    Maybe you could've played along saying "Yeah I tried wearing one last Christmas and I got a lot of weird looks, what did I do wrong?"

    That's really playful and it allows her to respond to a question too!

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    Default Re: Flirting to hard?

    Small update here.

    Texted her today with a great opener
    me: Hey! quick question: are you a dog lover or crazy cat lady?

    this went well and then almost got her on the phone but she was having dinner and said she had a manly voice being sick. Teased a bit and said goodbye.

    I think this can go somewhere and pretty excited to see where


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