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    Default Re: RB - That one girl you can't quite figure out

    One thing i noticed recently is that i will often go with b AS A BLUFF. That usually gets them to show an obvious IOI or IOD. Especially if you get into talking about your relationship.

    For ex... "i dont get u HB. You seem like a cool friend but you dont ever have time to hang (or whatever) Ur confusing lol (and thx to RB for this line).

    Hb:' well thats just me blah blah'

    Pua "well maybe i was wrong about us being good friends"

    Hb" ok. Goodbye! (Or something equally confrontational)

    Pua (smiling, stroking her hair)' be careful what u wish for. Because if u want me to leave, i am not coming back.'

    Then leave. Most times i start walking and they either say just kidding and stop u. Or they will text u after Freeze Out for a few days. But keep in mind THIS IS GO FOR BROKE. You can bluff it but you must be prepared to leave forever.

    Another way to do it is if she turns it around calls u confusing, tell her to say she hates u (flash a cheeky smile). She may not be able to... or she may say it. If she does say it, tell her her eyes give away that she's lying.

    And escalate!
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    Default Re: RB - That one girl you can't quite figure out

    I'm in kinda the same boat. I've been single since July 12 (married to a HB 9 the past 9 years)
    I have had pretty good success with women the past 7 months. My f close # is 23 since my separation in July. Not bad i must say but most if them are in the 6-7 range with a few 7-8s and one 9.5 ... So here's my Dilemma, this chick is a complete bombshell HB 9.5, she was good friends with my ex wife. I ran into her at the gym and we began talking and jogging together shortly after. So this went on for a few weeks and I asked her to meet me for drinks one night. This is where I farked up. We had drinks and went back to her house,I had some blow and we partied and farked literally all night. It was awesome. Little did I know she had not done drugs for 3 years prior to this night. So a few day passed and she basically told me that we could not hang out anymore bc of the coke. I understand where she is coming from so I backed off. All this happened aprox 2 months ago. So 2 weeks ago I ran into her at the bar,we talked and I went to the bathroom,when I came out she was waiting at the door,she through me against the wall and started kissing me. I was there with another girl so I couldn't go home with her that night(she asked me to). So the next day I text her and asked when would be a good night for us to hang out and she basically said she had made a mistake. I left her alone a few days and she called me to ask me to attend church with her. I did. She has put up walls toward me bc of the drugs, I haven't done any blow in 6 weeks or so and don't plan in doing it anymore,I have told her this but I don't think she believes me. I want this chick BAD! I would really consider having a LTR with her but she is being very difficult Obviously bc of the whole blow thing.. How should I handle this situation? She likes asshole guys and I'm not much of an asshole I'm just kinda good with women... Any help would be much Appreciated. Also she has said we gotta be friends for awhile and take it from there. This is bs. I can't stand it! I want back in BAD!

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    Default Re: RB - That one girl you can't quite figure out

    Don't bring up the coke, don't apologize for it if she brings it up. Respond more like - hey it was one time girl, relax

    Be a man and stay in control

    Just be a bit patient. Maybe after another week invite her out for a drink, or an activity, like skiing or something, Dont contact her meanwhile
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    Default Re: RB - That one girl you can't quite figure out

    Thank man, gonna give it a shot. I wasn't gonna contact her till later in the week like Thursday or Friday. We hung out this morning after the whole church thing for a few hours. I'm pretty shire she's into me or she wouldn't have invited me to go with her and her son to church today.

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    Default Re: RB - That one girl you can't quite figure out

    Lol... So I haven't had any contact with her since I left her house yesterday. She just texted me asking how my day was. Lol... Funny how that works!

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    Default Re: RB - That one girl you can't quite figure out

    No contact is one of those beautiful things, let her come to you and she will
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    Default Re: RB - That one girl you can't quite figure out

    Man this chick is driving me insane. So you have read my previous posts about what's been going on between her and I. This is the most recent and she is driving me crazy with this sh:t
    So I've been to church with her the past 2 weeks. Last Sunday we had a great time after service at her house. ( she has 2 kids,6 and 11) her son the 11 year old likes me a bunch and I don't think she would bring me around her kids if she weren't still interested in me. So last Sunday she had a chair that needed welding and I offered to weld it for her. (I'm very handy and can fix most anything, chicks like this quality) so I fixed the chair Monday and texts her Tuesday afternoon to let her know I had repaired it,in the same text I told her she would have to go out to diner with me in return. So today she texted me and asked if I would like to come over for diner at her house with her and the kids. I did and it was great,told jokes and had a good time. I ran mad Kino on her throughout the evening she kinoed back alittle. During some of our conversation she mentioned that she was still hung up on her ex boyfriend some blah blah blah. And asked how things were with me and this crazy chick I been banging. She has known about this other girl,no reason I should hide it. She knows I like her much more than the crazy b:tch. The problem I'm having is I can't get her to commit to a real date with me. She invited me to come to church with her again this Sunday and also invited me to come to her parents house Sunday evening for some bible study. I know I know she sounds like a church freak but she is totally not. She parties and drinks and is one of the coolest chicks I have spent any time with. Wtf is going on here? Why won't she date me again? Am I being played? I mean sh:t we already had great sex a few months ago and she practically raped me in the bar 4-5 weeks ago and now this bs. I need help with this chick!
    Any advice would be Awesome!

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    Default Re: RB - That one girl you can't quite figure out

    She might want it both ways. If there is religious pressure or whatever, she may be trying to live a double life... having fun on one hand but be responsible on the other. So one on one dating may be off limits.

    And btw... if your attending her church and bible study just to get her... your in AFC territory. You are complying with her. You need to do what u want, not what she wants you to do. Especially since you keep trying to take it further and she wont. The Freeze Out seemed to work, why not try it again?
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    Default Re: RB - That one girl you can't quite figure out

    It's funny,everytime I Freeze Out she calls or texts,or invites me over for diner. She is the one that originally invited me to attend church with her and the bible study,I haven't gone to the bible study yet and think I'm gonna skip out on it this week. I'm pretty sure she's into me I just can't get her to commit to a real date. She knows I been seeing this other chick and I'm pretty sure it bothers her even though she hasn't said so. Hell I don't know,I'm normally real good with women and have f closed 24 since my divorce in July but this chick is different,she knows I've been playin the field. It just doesn't seem like to me she would continue to talk to me and bring me around her kids if she weren't interested. I mean sh:t I've already banged her several times she just won't let me back in. She's super hot. 9 for her age (36) I'm 35.. He'll I don't know. I'm sick of putting up with it.

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    Default Re: RB - That one girl you can't quite figure out

    Then dont put up with it lol. You seem like your doing well numbers wise so stay focused on that. She may come around if u freeze her out and dont take her up on her first offer after she re-initiates. It seems to me you really like her tho. Like maybe she is under your skin. If you want to take things further, than comply with her half the time.

    However, if u just want her because she was easy but now is not... than get over it.

    I also want to say that perhaps due to her kids or morals she doesnt want to be 'bad' anymore. Maybe she just wants to settle down. Like she wants u but must make u fit her new found sense of herself. You may not want that so u should let her down easy (theres a thread on that somewhere). Hope i helped
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